How To Maintain A Sexual Relationship?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

In customer requests, it is not uncommon to find the topic of the safety of sexual relations. Some frankly wonder why, after a while, the desire to have sex on the part of a partner has noticeably diminished. Both men and women say about this. Let's try to clarify this issue.

At the beginning of a relationship, there is almost always falling in love, which is characterized by emotional upsurge and the release of hormones into the bloodstream. In this case, the natural reaction of the body will be sexual attraction. The situation changes over time. Scientists have proven that in women, falling in love lasts about 18 - 20 months, during which time a physiologically healthy woman is able to become pregnant and bear a child, which is a natural continuation of those processes in the body that are triggered with the onset of falling in love, this is how mother nature arranged. Of course, in reality this does not always end with the birth of a child, but it definitely affects sexual relations. For men, this process lasts about 3 years, that is, during this period a woman can give birth, and a man is responsible for the child, until the woman can take care of him on her own. Again, I want to emphasize that this program is embedded in our body, but its implementation is a very individual matter. Accordingly, at the time when falling in love ends, the sexual needs of partners also change. There are many options for changes, but the most optimal is the transition to acceptance with each other in order to build harmonious relations. In most cases, problems with sex begin during this period.

Sexual issues start not in partners' beds. It arises and develops in connection with the relationship of partners. One of the main factors that affect this is family conflicts. The result of a showdown in a couple is often grievances that a person tends to accumulate. Instead of expressing their dissatisfaction or disagreement, many accumulate their grievances, justifying this by the fact that they do not want to escalate the situation in the family. In fact, people gradually begin to form a negative image of a partner, which naturally affects their sexual attraction. Having sex with a person with whom you seriously swore just an hour ago is very difficult. Any unsettled quarrel makes, in our brain, the enemy out of the enemy, and sex with the enemy is not at all what a person might want. So over time, if conflicts are permanent, they nullify sexual desire. And since intimate relationships are one of the main aspects of intimacy and trust, in their absence, the emotional side of the relationship suffers greatly. This can lead to very unpleasant consequences, by the way, one of the reasons for betrayal is just this.

The way out of such a situation is, firstly: in conflict situations, not to evaluate the personality itself, but only actions and deeds, and secondly: to try to speak out your grievances, and not accumulate them in yourself. The spelled grievance in the correct presentation / it is not worth doing it in the form of reproaches / gives an opportunity not only to get emotional relief, but also to convey to another person your feelings. Often people tend to hide other problems behind sexual relations, which are very significant. To improve relationships, you can use non-sexual forms of physical contact during the day, this can be stroking or other manifestations of support and empathy.

Sex does not begin at night, but in the morning, when two people wake up and see each other precisely because of their relationship to a partner and how one feels the other, its quality and brightness of sensations will depend.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.