2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Loneliness - serious problem. The paradox of modern humanity: the number of people on the planet is increasing, and there are more and more lonely people. It would seem that such a choice of partners is freely available …
Today I invite everyone who lives alone, but intends to be a couple, to take a close look at their space.
I will write for women, but this is just to make it easier to read. A man can ask himself the same questions
Suppose today you met the man of your dreams, are you ready to invite him to visit right away? This is not a question of morality, but of the banal order of the house J
How many days do you need to calmly invite a person to your home? A day for light cleaning or a week for general cleaning?
So, the man of your dreams entered the hallway.
Does your closet have free hangers to hang his outerwear? And a place on the shelf in the hallway to put an umbrella, gloves, briefcase?
The man undressed, took off his shoes and is about to walk. Do you have oversized guest slippers?
Let's say you have wonderful plans for the evening - to cook together a romantic dinner. An hour ago, you were picking out groceries in a store, and, of course, he paid for them. Do you have dishes for two in the house? Or has everything gone so far that one soup plate and a plate of hot dishes are also in the singular lonely in the locker?
The dinner was a success, and you smoothly move into the bedroom. What is there? Single bed? A teenage sofa for a height of 155 cm? Or a wide sofa that can easily accommodate a volleyball player?
Do you have a double duvet and two pillows? Or in the morning, when the air is especially cool, you can have fun pulling the blanket over yourself?
Suppose your romance continues successfully, and the man of your dreams has been in your space for most of the week. Is there room in the bathroom on the shelf for a second toothbrush, shaving foam? A hook for a second towel?
If it so happens that a man will have to work a little in the evening, will there be at least a corner of a desk for him in your house?
Is there room in your home for a second person?
Of course, I'm exaggerating. But loneliness - a terrible thing. A person creates a space that is convenient for himself alone, and does not notice that the second person simply has nowhere to come.
It is customary in our society to create space for the expected child. A room for a nursery is allocated, a crib and toys are bought.
But waiting for a partner, inviting a partner into your life requires preparation. Requires space for two. Maybe some of you will now look at your home with slightly different eyes.
Well, in conclusion, I would like to say, the main thing is that the space for another was in your heart. You can buy a sofa and pillows for two. And eating from one plate for lovers can be an additional sign of intimacy.
Good luck to you!
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