2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
“A meeting of two people is like a meeting of two chemical elements. The reaction may not happen, but if it does, both change."
(Unknown author)
Walking through life, we meet different people: tall and small, thin and fat, beautiful and not very, complex and simple, - different. These meetings happen quite often, but very rarely do these meetings change anything in our life.
And there are meetings with such people, after which it is no longer possible to be the same as before, such meetings change us from the inside. Because this unique meeting does not take place simply and not only physically, but souls meet - on a different, more complex and beyond explainable level. This meeting brings a miracle into our life, penetrating into every cell of our soul and body, enveloping and filling us with some unknown beauty and strength.
It may be love, or it may be a devoted friendship, or it may be a mental connection of people who rarely see each other or do not see each other after this meeting at all.
1. Nothing just happens
The people with whom we intersect, the situations that happen to us, do not happen by chance, or these accidents are not accidental. This means that we needed this person: at this particular moment, in this particular situation or for this particular experience. Moreover, if this person is some kind of very special, "noticeable" among thousands of faces for our eyes or hearts.
After all, one is able to turn our life upside down with one appearance - and the other will not surprise, even having done this trick with his own life for us.
2. This person is unique to you
To other people, even to those who know him or her well, he may seem quite ordinary and not arouse so much interest and delight. It is important that he is unique to you, you yourself have the right to have such a unique person in your life and recognize his special status for you. It's so great to meet a special and unique person, whether he is a casual acquaintance or the most beloved.
It is important that when the meeting takes place, you change, and so much so that it can only be called magic.
3. You will never be the same again
It is this person who came into your life and thereby contributes to noticeable qualitative changes in the usual course of your life. Each of these can have different changes - it is important that this meeting brings such incredible sensations that, even if in a day or in 10 years your paths diverge, you will never forget about the existence of this person. Because he was or is special for you, and all your memories and events associated with this person are also special.
The most valuable thing that this person was or is in your life.
4. It cannot be controlled or prevented
For those who understand what I am writing about, I will note that no matter how much we would like today, right now, to meet such a special and unique person, it is almost impossible. The meeting either happens or not, and if it happens, both change. But if today has not happened, do not sit by the window and do not expect that special day will come tomorrow.
A special day today, now, for no reason, don't leave your life until a special occasion. Make the appearance of such people one of the values in life, but not the meaning of life. The meeting will happen when we are not expecting it at all, but exactly when we need it most!
5. Even if you disperse through life, there is a place in your soul for this person
The reality is that even with the closest people we can part ways in life, there will not necessarily be compelling circumstances and serious reasons for this. It just happened, and that's it. There may, of course, be serious reasons and disagreements. But if this person was truly special and important in your life, then there will always be a place for him in your heart. Even if you have seriously quarreled, when the passions subside, there will be a feeling that this person is special, and this is exactly what you will never meet again.
And it doesn't matter how long you have known each other, a hundred years or one day.
"After all, if the stars are lit, then someone needs it …"
6. This is for the elite - this is magic in your life
It's not about romance, but about the uniqueness of the moment. It's magic, miracle, magic, beyond explanation. If a miracle happens to you - you are already chosen: by God, life or people. You are special!
7. It is impossible to forget about the existence of this person
Memories associated with this person are stored with special force in our lives. Even after many years, we can remember moments to the smallest detail, to sounds, to quote expressions. We can meet a person in real life, even if the paths diverged, especially when something remained unclear in our shared past.
If you are still friends, communicate and / or love each other, there are more such special moments, but still, some memories are written in you, it would seem, forever.
If you are lucky enough to meet a special person, you are also special.
If he met just for you - he is also special.
Do not betray your uniqueness and do not refuse those people who could make your life special, do not be afraid, take risks!
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