2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Have you noticed sometimes that your communication with your partner on the network becomes similar to the correspondence of two bots? You send each other pictures, interesting links, emoticons in the form of approval or a demonstration of other feelings. And all this somehow neutralizes live spontaneous communication, into which people put their souls, takes away from it.
Why did it happen, where on the way your thoughtful conversations, stories vying with each other about your thoughts, feelings, current events were confused. Why did it become not important for both of you to exchange energy, and you replaced it with ersatz correspondence? It's like a bibliography in an article, without the text itself: useful, informative, and about nothing.
Perhaps you felt that you are burdened by the daily manifestation of tenderness, you do not want to be spiritually naked in front of your partner every time. Yes, and their own priorities sometimes prevail over the desire to please, to demonstrate loyalty. Although, if you look back, you were connected so much that maybe now is the time for a scattering of emoticons - a time for respite from each other?
Is it worth reviving the past intensity of communication, reanimating that direct and vivid interest in each other that arose when you met, and then in the process of recognizing each other? Perhaps this temporary fatigue is the result of an excessive investment of your soul in the problems of a loved one, but another person?
Then it's really worth taking time out and just swimming in the chat without putting a lot of semantic load into your interaction. And yet - will the former quality of relations return after such a habitual break? This is reminiscent of the formal communication of spouses in a real family, when by inertia they have breakfast together, go to work, return home, sleep again, eat, watch TV - and so on in a circle …
Or maybe, in either case, you just need to have a heart-to-heart talk, because you and your partner will definitely not lose heart if you finally voice your meaningful emoticons and speak in a lively language instead of cool pictures and links? Or you shouldn't even try and let things go - what do you think?
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