2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Video blogs are an ideal tool for instilling a variety of thoughts and behavior patterns. With the help of such a suggestion, you can shake your existing attitudes, if you systematically watch videos in which, drop by drop, your ideals will be questioned, ridiculed, devalued.
Suggestion can be directive, when an idea comes from a suggestor in an categorical form, like an axiom that must be believed, or indirect, for example, in the form of a Socratic dialogue, when your conviction is questioned and you are asked to give some reason for it. benefit.
An example of directive suggestion:
"There is no god. This is all the fruit of magical thinking, and Christ simply suffered from schizophrenia, with which his visions and conversations with God were connected."
Not so long ago, a client threw me a video of a psychiatrist who diagnosed Christ with this.
In the Socratic dialogue, which has the character of indirect suggestion, the chain of questions is built in such a way that a person answers the question “yes” at least 3 times, then he will more easily perceive the attitude that he previously considered unacceptable for himself.
An example of indirect suggestion:
- Socrates, any lie is evil!
- Tell me, does it happen that a child is ill, but does not want to take the bitter medicine?
- Yes, absolutely.
- Does it happen that his parents are tricked into taking this medicine in the form of food or drink?
- Of course it happens.
- That is, such a deception will help save the child's life?
- Yes maybe.
"And won't this lie harm anyone?"
- Of course not.
- In this case, will such a deception be considered evil?
- No.
- So can any lie be considered an absolute evil?
- It turns out that not all.
People believe in beautiful pictures, staged photos, but they do not know what the life of the object of their envy is like “behind the scenes”. Very often, when a person is dissatisfied with the quality of his life, he creates a beautiful facade as an illusion of his well-being and success.
In modern narcissistic realities, it is customary to "splurge", showing yourself to someone who you are not.
This window dressing makes a person very neurotic, forcing him to avoid contacts, because his illusory world on social networks does not correspond to the real state of affairs. In one young man, this frustration led to dissociative disorder: for periods he began to sincerely believe that he is a millionaire, has a collection of expensive cars, is engaged in street racing and lives in San Francisco, occasionally visiting his poor parents in Chelyabinsk.
Suggestion can pursue both a constructive goal (to increase self-esteem, tune in to good health, instill life-affirming attitudes, help to establish harmony in the family, etc.), and a destructive one (to instill complexes, destroy fundamental values, a family).
So, for example, if a consumer of television content is shown beautiful videos that naturalness is beautiful: cellulite, wrinkles, and an imperfect smile, and how women over 50 with imperfect forms indulge in passion with young men, then this imperfection will eventually be be considered the norm, if not something beautiful.
In another version, a video can be broadcast to the consumer, which will say that a woman over 50 is a terrible old woman, smelling of mothballs.
Once there was a cult of silicone breasts, lips, pop … Watching modern trends, I understand that this fashion is starting to go away and even in Hollywood, artists are beginning to give preference to naturalness: they no longer hide and retouch wrinkles, more women with non-standard forms, etc.
Of course, not every video blogger can inspire us with something.
As a rule, the suggestion acts on those people for whom the suggestor (the person providing the suggestion) enjoys some authority.
If a person seems to us unpleasant, repulsive, insignificant, we will criticize his words, then we are unlikely to succumb to suggestion.
That is why it makes sense to undergo therapy with a psychologist whom you like and enjoys authority.
And of course, in order for a new attitude to be introjected into your consciousness, it must have some kind of argumentation, at least the one in which you will be ready to believe.
Also, people who are in anxiety, in a stressful situation, fear for the future, have unstable personal values that can be easily persuaded, impressionable, emotionally labile are easily amenable to suggestion.
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