2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Who can assess mental pain and how?
Who and how can diagnose emptiness?
Who and how can take up the treatment of coma within us?
Who and how can feel fear in the stomach?
He came to me simply. I didn't know why myself.
"Bad", just "bad" - these are his first words more than 2 years ago.
"Can you tell where exactly (on the body) is bad?" I asked.
"No. I feel bad everywhere and at once. I don't feel myself."
Working with different symptoms, I encountered this for the first time. What to do? Panic! Exactly the opposite state of the client. We suddenly became one whole. But from different angles. He is in muscular and emotional apathy, I am in an internal panic.
What? What's going on with him? Why suddenly, a successful, healthy man (in his prime) can hardly sit in a chair: his back is bent, his arms are down, the corners of his eyes are directed downward. And I mentally jump around him and experience a gamut of very different, mixed, like a palette, feelings. From helplessness to anger, both at yourself and at the situation.
Apathy, from the point of view of psychology, carries a lot of information.
It does not just appear. Not out of the blue.
It is reborn slowly, periodically smoldering in our body.
Apathy "tells" a lot about depression of feelings. Different feelings.
And tells those who know how to listen to her.
And while I was spinning on the chair like a ruff. And I couldn't concentrate.
I was overcrowded, flooded with everything that absolutely DIDN'T HAVE him.
It took a lot of effort for me to calm down and start listening.
Listen to HER. Hear HER. To delve into HER words.
And this lady, Madame "APATIA" did not speak clearly, logically, and not consistently.
She completely took possession of the pleasant man sitting across from me.
Soon, at our meetings (or rather, not long before the appointed time) a "girlfriend" appeared - high blood pressure. (hypertension). From a psychological point of view, the reason for the occurrence of such an ailment lies literally on the surface - pressure on oneself.
These two ladies were signaling what was happening inside.
They shouted, like March cats, about pain, the impossibility to live like this anymore, about discomfort, suppressed feelings.
So these symptomatic ladies showed about the connection between the body and the internal state.
So from getting to know them, we (I and He) began the path of excavation.
There was a lot in his childhood, from stuttering and phobias to becoming an athlete and denying the painful, defenseless young age.
From hysteria to parents as a reaction to unfairness to complete submission and depression.
From activity at different periods of life to complete paralyzing apathy.
As he went through life's dead ends, pulling out symptoms "out of the body" - He came to life. Bodily. Sometimes for several weeks, and then froze again. Sometimes more and more.
Reflections through the body appear in different ways
Someone gets diarrhea from excitement, while others get the opposite.
One has a headache due to stress, while the other is prone to fractures.
All reactions in the body are INDIVIDUAL.
They cannot be adjusted to the standards, tables posted on the Internet …
If you notice frequent physical echoes of yourself, for example, in the form of a headache, high blood pressure, unexpected abdominal pain and other manifestations - ask yourself "What is happening to me? Is this a reaction to stress through the body? Is it through illness? to protect or hide from the situation? " Sometimes the body responds. Especially when you yourself are honest and open to him. And if you have received feedback, look for someone who will decipher them. Sometimes they are unexpected people. I know from myself.
Regards, me.
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