2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
During the stage of patience, partners acquire wisdom. Quarrels are no longer so dramatic, because both know that the quarrel is over, and the relationship must be continued. A new round begins. If the couple realizes this, then the partners have a desire to find a real stable platform of harmonious relations. Then they can rise to the next level.
What is important at this stage:
- There is an understanding that something needs to be done with the relationship. The gap in any case traumatizes the partners, and if there are children, then so will they. The realization comes that you need to change YOURSELF! In working on oneself, one's eyes are opened to the fact that the partner is an individuality, a personality. Against this background, the first attempts to stop changing each other appear, the couple is trying to see each other's own "I".
- Quarrels are increasingly taking on the following character: why quarrel if you have to put up. The couple already understands what everyone needs during quarrels for emotions to come out. They learn to give the partner the opportunity to release steam, emotions, as he wants, and then communicate.
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A partner has many different qualities, feelings, emotions. It has disadvantages, problems, complexes, but, like each of us, there is also beauty. You have to fall in love not with the merits, but with the demerits of your partner.
- Sometimes it takes a break for change because fear of loss is the strongest motive for needed change. The pain of a break stimulates positive change and growth. The gap in this case is an opportunity to destroy the old and start all over again, bringing to the new stage all the good that was in the previous stages. If a couple learns quickly, the breakup may not be necessary.
What to do?
- Accept each other's difference. Learn to forgive, endure, accept your partner as he is.
- Your pluses complement its minuses, and its pluses complement your minuses. Your job is to see and complement each other, supporting your weaknesses with his strengths. If you are aware of this, you will understand how strong your couple can be. Put yourself in your partner's shoes more often to see and understand what each of you is investing in the relationship. Or trust that your efforts are equal to his.
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Persecutors - Be patient and tune in to a positive outcome of change. Distributors should comment on their actions for change.
- Have a friendly dialogue, not silence or blaming each other.
- Consider any negative situation not from the position of its possible unpleasant consequences, but from the point of view of finding a solution to its settlement.
- Appreciate the change and use it to benefit your relationship. Try new approaches to make the change effective.
- Change your way of thinking. Anyone who wants to love will find a suitable way. And for working on relationships
- you will receive an unexpected reward: your feelings will become more mature and stronger.
- Remember, relationships are work. Relationships by themselves will not be harmonious. This is daily care for them, for yourself and your partner. Therefore, focus your efforts on keeping your union.
REMEMBER: when one of the partners changes in the flow of the relationship, he creates space for the relationship to grow and change in the direction of his partner.
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