2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
My path to psychological education began with a desire to share with women the knowledge that I had accumulated at that time. My friend, thank her very much, then said the following phrase: “and from the position of whom are you going to share? You are not educated as a psychologist. Who are you to call women and tell them something?"
Then I was, to put it mildly, unpleasant to hear it. I believe, and I was convinced of this many times, that a psychologist is more of a vocation. A psychologist needs, as they say, to be born. At the same time, any recognition, ability and talent must be developed. Otherwise, there will be no benefit to yourself or to people.
But now is not about that. At that time, I was interested in everything connected with a woman. It was interesting for me to know myself, to open myself to myself, to go deeper, to observe the changes.
I continue to do this today. It is easy and natural for me to study the nature of women, because I myself am a woman. Therefore, I often write from a female point of view. I believe that male authors should deal with the nature of the stronger sex, I always read them.
Have you noticed that a girl, outwardly attractive, beautiful, is a straight doll, and does not beckon? At the same time, the girl "what did he find in her", "she is none" arouses interest not only among men, but also among women. Why is it so attractive?
“The overwhelming majority of women confuse the concept of femininity with erotic attractiveness, they do everything to enhance external sexuality, and do not attach importance to internal qualities. They use makeup, bright clothes, jewelry, different hairstyles and do not pay attention to the fact that all this does not accompany the content,”writes Dario Salas Sommer, author of the book“Does a Woman Exist”.
But put burlap on a woman, and she will show her nature, if she could feel it. Femininity, sexuality are states. They are not read from external appearance. All the methods we use to decorate ourselves can only emphasize these states, but in no way replace them. I would even say "change".
Some women in conversation with me drew my attention to the fact that they are outwardly not attractive. And I looked at them and saw how beautiful and seductive they are inwardly. Attracts their content.
Unfortunately, we live in a world where great importance is attached to packaging, appearance, and content, inner world is lost. This is one of the reasons why, with obvious external signs of a successful life, it can be difficult for a person internally. I do not want to discount all the beauty that we emphasize ourselves with. It is also important. However, we must also take care of what is inside us.
In one of the books, the author calls the inner world of a woman a “garden”. A very interesting comparison. When we stop caring for the garden, it no longer pleases our eyes. We hate to look at the weeds. The same happens with our inner garden. Therefore, fill yourself with content, see how much you fully feel your feminine nature, accept it and do not compete with men.
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