2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
MANIFESTO OF LOVE
Just because I love you …
I will never give you my last because I love you. For if I give you the last, I will be angry and offended at you and will no longer be able to come close.
It is because I love you that I take care of myself first. Because if I don't take care of myself, I won't be able to give anything to you.
Just because I love you, I open my heart to you, even when the darkest darkness is on it. Because if I don't open it to you, it will stand between us.
Precisely because I love you, I sometimes leave you and remain alone in order to connect with myself and, having rested, return to you as a fresh person, ready to communicate.
Precisely because I love you, I constantly swear and argue with you. I don’t want the unresolved issues to become a wall between us.
Precisely because I love you, I am constantly looking for and developing myself, so that later I do not blame that I spend my life only on you.
Precisely because I love you, I do not impose on you an unbearable burden of responsibility for my happiness. I am not asking you to make me happy. And I'm not trying to make you happy either. For the happiness of a person is only his business.
Precisely because I love you, I will try not to do anything for you through force, so that later I do not get angry and not take offense at you that you are forcing me.
Precisely because I love you, I often get angry with you, because you come close to me like no one else and can hurt. My anger is limited and directed towards clear goals. My anger is not an attempt to kill you, but an invitation to negotiate.
Just because I love you, I come up with the rules by which we will live, because we are two separate people. Two universes that need to somehow agree.
Just because I love you, I am vulnerable with you and I do not hide my vulnerability. Because it is through this that we can be close.
Precisely because I love you, I patiently and carefully treat your "sore spots" without trying to hit them. But I do not ignore them either, giving you the opportunity to heal.
Precisely because I love you, I sometimes show severity, perseverance and even obstinacy in order to remain myself. Because if I stop being myself, I cannot be with you.
Precisely because I love you, I often say "no" to you, so that my "yes" is complete and sincere.
Precisely because I love you, I often refuse you to agree to what I really like and to be with you in it without a trace.
Precisely because I love you, I do not pity you and do not make you a moral invalid, but patiently wait for you to heal your mental wounds in my presence.
Precisely because I love you, I do not take your responsibility, because if I take it, it will make you weak and me angry with you.
Precisely because I love you, I stop when I realize that you already have a lot of me. Just because I love you, I say that I already have a lot of you. Because if I don't say this, I will have a feeling of disgust for you and our meeting will become a torment.
Precisely because I love you, I would rather not get close to you if I am not sure of the purity and clarity of my or your intentions.
Precisely because I love you, I keep asking myself what I want and what interests me. To share with you the joy of your discoveries and achievements.
Precisely because I love you, I try to find happiness without you, so as not to hold you responsible for my well-being, but to share what I have.
Just because I love you, I do not promise you that this will last forever. But I can love you now with all my soul and with all my strength.
Just because I love you, I'm ready to live my whole life without you, if it's better for you.
Just because I love you, I let you go into all the adventures you want to experience in life. Because the one who has to leave will leave anyway. And those who are true
intended for you, will stay or return.
Precisely because I love you, I am glad if you feel good with someone else besides me, because I want the world to have more people who love you.
Precisely because I love you, I do not tolerate you, but immediately say that I do not like it. Let it be better to have many small lapping, than one big all destructive quarrel.
Precisely because I love you, I am ready to let you go at any moment, because only then will I rejoice in every second spent together.
Precisely because I love you, I do my best to love and know myself, so as not to try to use you to plug my holes and unconsciously heal my wounds.
Just because I love you, I face my pain, anger and fear. I find the courage to go through it over and over again. I expect a lot from myself, but I only hope for your answer, because you are not me. You are different. And I can see you. I try to see you as clearly as possible, distinguishing you from my fantasies and illusions. Just because I love you.
A. Dateshidze
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