2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Hello, I am a wallet. All decent people know that this is what serious wallets are called. With an emphasis on the last syllable, and preferably with a French pronoun. Yes. And here's my story.
Once I was such a frivolous wallet, and the money I had was not that small, but irregular. Something frivolous under the name "scholarship", more or less decent under the name "pocket", well, and most importantly - "from grandmother to ice cream." The money was spent easily, back and forth, not only for ice cream, of course, but, in general, it was not necessary to be empty. Eh, youth is golden …
As time went on, I became a decent leather wallet, gained thickness and a nice weight. In me, bills of large denomination and different colors rustled gently, and, of course! no petty rattling. I became imposing, knowing my own worth, not caring about the daily day, but thinking about the beautiful. For example, what can money buy? And for a lot of money? I was pulled out of my pocket or bag in hidden chic, and often in delightful places: beautiful shops, fashionable clubs, trendy restaurants. We went abroad and ah! How we wasted money there! They could afford it. Still - a decent income, twice a month, an advance salary, clearly on schedule, knock-knock, drip-cap. And at the end of the year there is a wi-i-rny-s-th bonus. Yes….
And then something happened to my master. He desired the strange. Firstly, they began to get me in places called "school of psychotherapy", "supervision", "theoretical seminar". Secondly, we began to spend money in bookstores, and an obscene amount! Even then, I suspected something was wrong, and, alas, my suspicions came true. One day the cash flow, so familiar and so predictable, dried up. My master decided that he was ready to live in a new way. It was alarming, but we were warmed by the thought of an expensive leather chair, a Chippendale table, a couch with a curved headrest, a fluffy carpet, and a floating scent of exquisite perfume.
But soon the visions dissipated like smoke. We have not even equipped the office, but for now we are filming different corners for meetings with "clients", where we are talking about life. It is interesting that after all the books I have read, and many years of study, my master does not teach the life of those who come, but listens to them more and more, and believe me, these people tell far from the most pleasant things. And they also stage scenes and act out stories during the meeting, but ts-s-s, don't tell anyone, in a decent society they won't understand you!
My life has also changed radically. The beautiful big green bills were gone, everything became depressingly irregular, I lost my gloss. True, my owner seems to have completely lost his mind, because he stopped worrying about cruises, and instead of thinking about big money, he had thoughts about the meaning of life, trust, about different feelings … We often meet others like the owner in places where talk is about lofty matters, and money is exposed to "awareness." Agree, a strange word.
And here's another. When I became so… uh… unpresentable, for some reason I felt that I became dear to the owner. Now he's investing money in me, how shall I put it … respectfully. And he spends much more judiciously. I am no longer a major purse, I am an ordinary wallet. However, please note! qualitative. I do not lose hope that the weight and thickness will return to me. But I have no illusions that gloss and pathos will return.
Amazing paths are chosen by people, right? And the fate of their wallets is inscrutable.
You have become familiar with the monologue technique used in the psychodramatic method.
Psychodrama therapists of the Ukrainian Union of Psychotherapists (USP) Andrey Zlotnikov, Elena Nesterenko, Elena Stupak spoke to you about the role of a purse-purse. Psychotherapy is playful and sometimes willow play.
About how to change the life of your wallet - here.
Below is a link to a training project on psychodrama
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