"From Lazy To Happy" Or Dedicated To Moms

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

You know, I noticed that a mother is not just a new social status that a woman acquires after giving birth to a child. Mom is a new form of communication between two once close friends, two relatives, the mother of a woman who has given birth and her daughter. Mom is a new way of interacting with the outside world. And, of course, mom is stressful.

Whether we like it or not, postpartum depression is fun that comes to many of us. We "protect" her by saying that "it should be so." There is simply a "restructuring" in the family. But in reality, it is difficult to understand why the state is sad, and why support often comes from soap operas and popular talk shows.

In fact, something is happening that we, many mothers, are afraid to admit to ourselves - we are overcome by laziness … Appathy. We find a "secluded hideout" in which we can spend a little more time in front of the TV or with a tablet in hand.

The universe itself "helped" us and gave us a so-called vacation called "motherhood"! And there is nothing in the fact that the dishes can stand for a week unwashed in the sink. There is absolutely nothing in the fact that home clothes have faded, lost their appearance, overgrown with spots. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the fact that the head was last washed five days ago (at the same time the shower was taken). Well, then, there is nothing bad in the fact that in a year, and in extreme cases, in three, dad will leave mom. And how can he do that to the one who “devotes herself to the child” ?!

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Mom also writes the article.

Finally, be honest with yourself. Separate the wheat from the chaff at least in dialogue with yourself. Admit that the young mother has more than enough time. Yes Yes! Many are quite happy to do their home and work. Many find a hobby to their liking, devote a lot of time to it. Finally, the very time has come when many periodicals literally began to shout that the decree is a time of opportunity. The time when you can find a new hobby, maybe do distance education or work remotely. The decree is a time when, along with the new role of motherhood, new roles of self-realization can also be mastered.

• Have you wanted to take up your figure for a long time? You will probably never have as much time as on maternity leave! No matter how loudly you laugh at this phrase now, if you have a small child, you can find 1-2 hours a day to take care of your body. Most likely at home. It is likely that you will experience the gaze of your child. So why not immediately set the right example for him to take care of himself?
• Have you wanted to read a large number of self-development books? The cards are in your hands! Here it is - the very chance to master reading when you can find an hour or two, probably lying with your baby.
• Have you dreamed of learning new dishes or cooking basics from other countries? God forbid, the child will not interfere with you in this! On the contrary, while he is lying on the couch or mastering the walker - you can master a new dish. Now do you understand what the phrase really means - to take the first steps TOGETHER with the child ?! Take new steps too!
• Would you like to freshen up your relationship with your husband? By the way, you have probably forgotten about your husband for a long time. Especially about what tender, subtle, warm feelings do you have for him? It’s in vain. After all, he needs you no less than you need him. You just probably skillfully "extinguish" the need for a husband, and most importantly, for mutual pleasure called sex. What prevents you from returning the old colors in the bedroom. Treat your child's sleep patterns wisely. Customize it for yourself, contrary to numerous recommendations.

And most importantly, listen to recommendations less. Even the ones described above. If you are happy as a mother, as a wife, as a woman, then, of course, your children, your parents and your husband will be happy. Women's happiness - like the wave of a magic wand in a family - changes the atmosphere to a state of absolute euphoria.

Learn to be happy! Learn to understand that happiness, as it is right, strongly depends on how much effort you put into it.

Go for it!