2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Each person is part of his family system, belongs to a certain genus.
It may not be pleasant, irritating or even rejecting. People change their surnames, leave thousands of kilometers if only their parents are left behind, they want to forget the terrible thing that happened to them in the family. But they still remain a part of their kind, they are still “their own”, although they themselves may feel alien or superfluous.
Each person contains all the information about his family, his family, all events in the past. All family values, beliefs, rules that unite people into family systems are in the unconscious of all family members. Something we are aware of, but some are not. All these recurring conflicts, illnesses, failures, sorrows and suffering may actually be a consequence of what happened once in the past, but for some reason it was forgotten and thus one of the generic laws is violated. Something difficult and terrible happened, I had to keep silent or shut up about it, and now a family secret was formed, which is capable of exerting a negative and destructive effect on descendants, through diseases and addictions, centuries later.
Or someone in the family went through shock or trauma and in order to survive, they simply turned off all feelings. And centuries later, causeless fear or panic, horror or chronic shame with guilt are catching up with descendants.
It would seem that it is enough to observe the laws of the race and human life will become much easier and more pleasant, success, money, relationships, health will always be present. But even not all constellators know about the 6 laws, and even more so with a common man in the street. Not so simple.
We understand very little about the deep personal unconscious, let alone the generic, which stores information and knowledge of millions of ancestors, almost nothing.
For example, a simple family lives for itself, all workers and hard workers and suddenly a child appears who is drawn to music, understands everything, grasps everything on the fly, where did this talent come from? And then it turns out that it accumulated over several generations, someone loved to sing, someone to listen to nightingales, someone to play a pipe, and now Beethoven was born in the family.
Ancestral systems are akin to galaxies, and a large ancestral soul is the whole universe. It is not for nothing that family processes, as in the universe, are slow and invisible, they manifest themselves only through human destinies, through serious illness and loss, divorce and addiction, through suicide and violence.
We cannot influence our generic system, it is it that determines everything within us. But we can know its laws, the orders of the generic soul, be aware of cause-and-effect relationships, and therefore look for a solution to the complex that possibly burdens our life.
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