2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Alpha male with no brakes
A man goes to rest with another passion in the company of friends who know his wife. Acquaintances avert their eyes, feeling embarrassed and perplexed. And the gallant male does not notice anything, because he is selfish and narcissistic: the person is bloated, and the curls rest on the clouds.
The hero-ladies' man comes home and tells his wife about love affairs. There is probably little recognition from others. But why prove your own grandeur in front of your wife with words? You can, and in bed.
This indicates a man's self-doubt, low self-esteem and sadistic inclinations.
The wife knew about the mistresses, but protected herself with a screen of ignorance.
But when the husband informs about it directly, the wife wriggles in humiliation, despair and disgust. And the rapist enjoys the suffering of the victim. Or doesn't see what hurts.
What woman would tolerate such treatment? There are different circumstances in life: emotional or material dependence between spouses, small children, common property or business …
And the husband, feeling impunity and permissiveness, loosens his girdle more. The wife needs a Rescuer to protect her from the Aggressor. On the face of the Karpman triangle and the codependent family system.
Our alpha boor does not need to flutter from one woman to another, but to work hard on himself in psychotherapy.
But the man is busy with something else. It falls short of the internal standard and compensates for the feeling of failure by external indicators. Increases the number of those seduced for self-affirmation.
In this process, the following are not important: the name, the history of the woman, the rich inner world. Woman as an object of consumption.
A man does not choose a woman who is close in spirit, but insatiably permeates the deepest energies of many women.
It's like dipping your hands into a can of red paint, then green, blue, yellow, purple. And what color will the hands become? Gray-brown-scratched.
This is the color of the trail stretching behind the alpha mega pepper.
After all, every woman is unique, with a special set of values, qualities and talents.
For example, one woman is dominated by the maternal instinct. The second woman is characterized by an energetic energy of achievement. The third is gushing creativity and self-realization. The fourth revolves in the impetuous energy of hectic affairs. Fifth - in meditative calmness and relaxation.
Streams of incomparable energies create chaotic turbulence around the macho, causing putrid fermentation in the soul and energy. The loving Don Juan begins to ache and fade.
He gets scared, leaves his devoted wife of the same age and marries a 20-year-old beauty. The alpha dashing man does not think about what he will do with his young wife when attractiveness and potency remain around the corner.
Most likely, the alpha-kapets will meet old age in deep solitude, shabby, with undermined health and a foul-smelling reputation.
"Korablyadskaya" personal life
Last year I went to a sanatorium for health improvement. I will share with you the peculiarities of male-female relations in the sanatorium-resort area:
1. No married or married.
The man who came to the sanatorium with his wife assures that he is not married.
2. There are no boundaries between people.
Distance, tact, territory of personality are temporarily canceled.
The man, whom I saw a couple of times and did not recognize by face yet, managed to take offense at me and said that I was Dynamo.
I'm used to being respectful and tired of holding boundaries from pushing.
I was "lucky" - I got sick - for a week it turned into a snot-coughing virus that helped me defend the borders.
The subtext of the words of some of the men implied that I had come here to do not only health, but at the same time something else.
My skin felt the fussiness and speed of the ticking unmet need of the man opposite.
Firstly, the duration of the tour is limited. And in a short time they want to satisfy their desires to the maximum.
Secondly, the age is felt. “Today it is attractive. And tomorrow is unknown."
Third, some think more deeply: “Today I am alive. And tomorrow is unknown."
And this boosts the advancement towards a woman. Only in this chaotic movement is a woman seen as an object. Like a bowl of soup.
Ate - good. I can't eat this bowl of soup - "quickly, before I wasted a lot of time, looking for another bowl of soup."
How do you like this oil painting?
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