2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
“… My husband lives with my belly. Yes, yes, soon he will also start talking to him, or even worse - he will come up with a nickname.
My husband lives with him - with this big belly, which I myself, voluntarily raised. I don't have a friendship with houseplants. Wither quickly. But the belly - the belly is a completely different matter. I feed him, take care of him - and it grows.
No, don't you think. I'm not pregnant. Although surprisingly quickly I find a place in public transport. It's hard for me with him, I guess. "What time is it?" - asks a nice woman in line at the checkout. "And who are you wearing?" I carry my labors - muttering to myself … but it's a shame. It's a shame somehow that the belly is normal only when you carry a baby there. And I wear myself! Beloved! And in general: a good person should be …
Yes, you yourself know everything … In the evenings, depression torments. Especially at the moment when I understand that in the triangle "husband-me-my belly" - I am absolutely superfluous concept. They already feel good. Together.
But there is something to feed my sweetest belly. The moment that I never allowed myself to experience. After all, “everything is fine” with us, but in public, so in general - you can sign autographs and talk about the secrets of family happiness.
… I remember. I remember the day when the words hurt me. And I didn't cry. And she didn’t tell anyone, because “you can’t take quarrels out of public” or even worse: “how to communicate with people later, if you tell them everything, and tomorrow everything will be fine”.
And I didn't cry in front of him either. Yes, he didn’t understand, probably, that he offended, but now, after so much time, I don’t want to stir up the past. After all, everything has been going on as usual for a long time …
Do you know what delicious Brunswick sausage is? Especially if the pizza … and cheese! I always order a double portion of cheese! This is what I understand "To eat". The best pizza companion is what? Of course, half a liter of invigorating soda in the familiar dark brown color.
Eat, my dear. And let your husband come up with a nickname tomorrow … Today. I will make up my mind. Finally, I dare to cry. It's high time for me, although people like me - steel women - do not cry.. But I will make up my mind!
I didn't even think that it would turn out so quickly. But I reread my lines myself and cry. Maybe it was high time to write this letter to give yourself a chance to finally become real. And no, there won't be any pizza today. There will be fruits. And a bottle of red wine. Although it is risky! A hungry husband is an evil husband. I'll feed him, and I'll drink some water myself. I'll give my husband the opportunity to talk to his stomach. And later, when I feed my husband, I will finally let him read this letter. Maybe it's time to talk to us with him. I no longer want to feed my grudge, which has been sitting so long and firmly in my stomach. Forgive me, further it will be all about personal. Yes, and a letter, perhaps I will write something completely different …"
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