How To Send Your Man To The Left?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Faithfulness is always the foundation of a quality and healthy relationship between a man and a woman. Of course, different things happen in life, but at the same time you should not forget that you can be pushed towards treason, and very strongly. But its consequences can have a very negative impact on the attitude, and on the condition of a man and a woman.

Today we are talking about how a woman can provoke a man to go “to the left”. Immediately, I note that men are different, but at the same time their thoughts and reactions are similar, I am far from the idea that I change all men only at the suggestion of a woman, however, in order not to face such a situation, it is useful to understand how a man treats certain comments from the woman.

Often, when a couple has already lived for some time, the passions have subsided a little, life is already more or less adjusted. People already know each other better, including their weaknesses. At such moments, women, especially during quarrels, express the following thought to men: "But who else needs you like that?" In the future, a woman can use this argument quite often, trying to emphasize her importance.

For a man, this is a clear devaluation and humiliation. His feelings and experiences are filled with aggression and anger. Someone may try to prove by his actions to his woman that he is worthy of her, and someone on the contrary will think and decide to check it on the side, with another woman. At the same time, he will begin to look for the woman who needs him the way he is. And believe me, he will, then the relationship is over.

It is very difficult for men to endure this kind of disrespect from a woman. The main thing that a man expects from his woman is not even support or care, but respect and acceptance of his merits and demerits. In a situation of devaluation and humiliation, a man most likely does not want to feel flawed and will go to another. Ladies, think, would you be pleased to hear that no one needs you and are not good for anything?

Another point that, in my opinion, can be dangerous for the relationship. Often, women in response to some request or desire of a man, not wanting to fulfill it, can refuse. At the same time, having commented on his refusal something like this: "You do not like what I am doing, find yourself another, let her please you." Over time, such a woman's answer becomes so familiar to her that a man hears it very often.

At one "fine" moment, he may well decide that maybe he really should look for the one that listens to his wishes. After all, a woman openly tells him about this method. Men really do not like to ask for a long time, and if they give him a ready-made solution, then why not try it. As a rule, such searches end sadly for a relationship, a man finds one that will “please” him, with which the woman remains understandable.

There is one fairly common expression that a man should be put in his place, but for a relationship it is much more useful for women, sometimes to take the place of men themselves. And to check how they would react if a man spoke out to them in this way, this can in many ways help create a truly healthy relationship. It often happens that we say to someone else what we would not like to hear addressed to ourselves. After all, any words give rise to certain feelings, emotions, thoughts and desires, and this is precisely the material from which relationships are built.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.