2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Hello, my future client … I am writing to you …
Who writes?
I am the one who will support you as long as you need. I am the one who will believe in you even when no one believes in you, including yourself. I am the one who will offer you to pause so that you can look around and see how and where you are going. So that you have time to consider what you really want. I promise to listen and hear you. I promise to be attentive to what is important to you, to your values. I am the one who will not criticize you, condemn you, advise you. I will help you see the resources that you have. I will show you that the world is bigger than you see it, and I will help you expand your world. I will give you the time you need. I will tell you how to learn to support yourself and believe in yourself. I will share your emotions: rejoice and be sad with you. I will inspire you, and be inspired by you. I will admire you and love you for what you are. I will "hold your hand" as long as you need it. I'll be there until you decide you're ready to move on on your own. I will be with you until you decide that you have achieved what you really wanted. I will do everything that I can, everything in which I continue to develop and learn as a coach and as a consultant in the method of positive psychotherapy.
I will do my job in the best possible way for your incredible results. I will do my job for you! When you come to me with any problem, we will talk not only about the problem, but also about you, about your whole life. We will talk about your relationship with yourself, with people, with life. We will talk about your relationship with your own body. We will talk about your activities. We will talk about the meanings in your life. Whatever request you come with, I, as a life coach and as a consultant in the method of positive psychotherapy, will help you resolve your request. Whatever it is. Whatever it is about. In whatever state you are. Whatever emotions I feel. Very often you have no one to come to with this, no one to share with. You can continue to carry it with you and handle it alone. And you can, without fear of evaluation, condemnation, misunderstanding, share this with me. What is important to you, what is difficult for you, what is not ready to share with anyone. I will be by your side, I will "hold your hand." I will help you find the answer, I will help you find your solution and support you when you make your wish come true.
Just being your coach or consultant. Just because I enjoy doing what I do. Sincerely, with love, for you. You will see me for 60 minutes, once a week on Skype, until you decide that you are ready to go further on your own.
You will know that you have my faith and support 24/7. And you will act as you decide between our meetings. It will be easy for you to act, because at the meeting we will also work on your inner resistance. So that nothing prevents you from getting what you want in life. A lot will happen in your life between meetings: realizations, changes, events. And all this time I'll just be there. Once a week, on the day of our Skype meeting, I will tell you: "I'm glad to see you!" And we will walk side by side towards your goal. I will not pull or push you. I will not impose my reality on you. I will be your guide to your world. In your unique, inimitable, special world on the way to your desires and goals, to what you really want from life. Sincerely, with love, your coach, your consultant in the method of positive psychotherapy, Khurkunova Lyubov. And further…
Coaching and psychotherapeutic counseling are two areas that are next to each other. Coaching is about goals, about dreams, about desires, about elections, more about the future than about other times. This is a way to get to know what you want, so that you can easily come to this with the help of a specialist - coach. Psychotherapeutic counseling is more about the past than about the present and the future. About responsibility for what is happening in your life, about the fact that if I created something in my life, I know exactly how I created it and how, if necessary, to uncreate it in the opposite direction. With the help of counseling methods, you can work with resistance (for example: “I can't learn English in any way, something constantly bothers me”) while moving towards the future. With the help of counseling methods, you can work with emotional states. Coaching and psychotherapeutic counseling are two complementary ways of working with a client.
In the process of Skype meetings, I use various techniques and techniques. But only those that would be appropriate for the situation and would be useful to my client. And now … OFFER … hands and hearts! I suggest you, my future client, find 20 minutes in your life to get to know me by meeting on Skype at a convenient time for you. During our acquaintance, it is important for me that you decide whether you want me to be there and move with you towards your desired future.
I want you to feel if you want me to be your guide. And only then did I decide whether or not to accept my PROPOSAL. After all, most likely, you still do not know what coaching or psychotherapeutic counseling is. You don't understand what will happen during our Skype meeting. You don’t know what we’ll talk about, and what it’s worth telling me. You are worried and perhaps scared. I understand you. I accept you for who you are. And I'm waiting for you. Just try it. Knock me on Skype: Khurkunova, Write in Skype - chat about what worries you, scares, confuses you. I will answer your questions, and you will decide whether you want to come to a free trial Skype meeting in order to chat, get to know each other and make your decision within 20 minutes. A test meeting does not oblige you to anything. You can always leave without explanation. Or, you can always stay! With faith in you, your coach and consultant, Khurkunova Lyubov
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