Dear Misha! - Letter To The Unfaithful Husband

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Letter to the unfaithful husband

You cheated on her with another woman. He returned to the family a month later: "I'm sorry, the devil has beguiled." Your wife forgave you, accepted you. And six months later she started talking about the divorce: "I can't do this anymore, Misha, I'm tired. I don't want to." And now you are banging your head against the keyboard, you get all the friends in social networks: “What's wrong with her? it is impossible to recover. Why?"

"Why did Gerasim decide to leave his lady after drowning Mumu?" - to this question you, Misha, like many schoolchildren, once answered in an essay. “Human dignity awakened in the hero, and he realized that he could not live as before,” that was what he had to write then in order to get a good assessment. But you haven't mastered the material, that's why you are so indignant now: "Where is the logic? Was she choking with resentment all this time?"

That's right, Misha. No matter how fun your friends are with naked girls on their avatars: "A good leftist strengthens marriage!", Betrayal is a strong blow to the union of a man and a woman. Why should spies, business partners, or friends evaluate betrayal the way it should be, but your spouse should treat it differently? Just because you came with flowers: "Let's forget everything, dear"? Exhausted, exhausted, still clinging to you out of habit as if she were a loved one, she herself was glad: "Come on." But every minute of your further life she remembered everything. It's hard to forget that you have a knife in your back, Misha.

“I don’t believe him. So he smiles, drinks tea, touches me, says“beloved,”and I only think:“Traitor.”- This was told to me by a woman who experienced a similar story. - He gave me up! And I was in such a shock, did not think, hoped that it would be easier if he returned … And now, it turns out, I have to open myself to him again: "Oh, darling!", If you have already accepted? I can not! I hate."

This woman did not file for divorce and did not begin to live, hiding a deaf anger, just to be listed as married. This family has not broken up. Because her husband endured her tears, tantrums, accusations. And he did not just endure, clenching his teeth, he proved with every action that he understood her feelings, recognized that she had a right to them. He was gaining trust anew. So that his woman is convinced that he will not leave her anymore. Whatever happens. Even if for the rest of her life she says her own thing: "I don't believe you."

And you, Misha, as soon as your wife began to complain of pain, winced: "Well, as much as possible!" Psychoed: "We agreed to forget everything that you are starting again! Why should I hawala your claims again and again?" You wanted to live as if nothing had happened. But that was all, Misha. If you want to save your marriage, admit it. Face your trouble. Cry with the one who loves and hates you. Repent. Get on your knees. Once, and again, and a thousand more times, if need be. Hawai, Misha!

Nursing a seriously wounded man, seeing his suffering, hearing his curses: "What have you done to me! What have you done!" it is not easy - the womanizer cannot do it. But otherwise you will lose her. Your wife will simply die, there will be a stranger, a woman who despises you, who will file for divorce: why should she live with a stranger?

And also remember that the scar, even if it heals, will still not disappear. And in 10 years you will both feel it sometimes. And 20 years later, when she looks at your 2013 photos, she is pricked: "That was the year he cheated on me." Are you ready for this? Are you sure you are ready? Then I wish you all the best. You will still have happy days. You will see.