2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-12 20:57
Friends, I propose for consideration one not obvious, but very strong analogy that determines the meaning of the suggested below - a useful, spiritual practice - in the circumstances of outraged heart, love feelings. Think about it: what does a rejected person feel in situations of breakup, when a partner, for whatever reason, has rejected the love he has born? Is there not in these circumstances the feeling of "heart cutting", as if the fruit thrown overboard - sacred, special, dear?
Desecration of a shrine. Truncation of the born feeling.
If we transfer the analogy to the eventual human level: the rejection of love is akin to the abortion of a life once bound, but interrupted, rejected.
Once - and that's it! End! Dot! Throw out, threw out love.
We are now not talking about the moral consequences of such a regrettable step, but about the possibilities to fix everything. Indeed, in the indicated cases (both allegorical and vital), you can not get rid of, but leave. In spite of and in spite of! In the name of a sacred life!
I'll move on to my practice.
Returned love. Accepted inner child
1. So, in the circumstances noted, experiencing a love rejection, try to imagine your rejected love as the purest (abandoned by your partner) bright, wonderful child.
They abandoned him, they no longer want him. Renounced! Rejected! Betrayed! Almost ruined!
2. Try to discern this helpless, pure child in an impossible situation for him. Abandoned, abandoned, weak and sick.
3. Take a closer look at him. What is born in your heart? A pity? Sympathy? Despair? Love?
4. Now, please remember: this is your child! (Your feelings, your love.) Scolded by your partner, but living in your heart. This means: their history, further destiny is completely in your hands!
5. Just think: after all, this is a child of Love (just inner, spiritual) - future life - a universe of possibilities and resources. So is it possible (according to the logic of the partner) to also refuse it? Well, of course, of course not!
6. Walk up to the baby. Pick it up and take it in!
7. Hold it to your heart!
8. Feel its pulsation, the rhythms of the future, your responsibility, a miracle!
9. Think: this is yours! Treasure, radiance, grace!
10. Save it to yourself!
11. Look at the baby again … He is accepted, which means he is happy, saved. His trouble has receded!
12. Your child is safe. He is okay!
13. Listen to your feelings: you have retained love in yourself - a piece of God inside. And this is your sacred, happy Gift! Not splashed, not rejected - accepted - not forgotten!
14. Confidently go to a joint, happy future! You are not alone! And he is not alone! There are two of you! You and your love are your abilities, resources, faith, soul.
15. There are no gaps! The miscarriage did not happen! The inner child under your care is okay! 16. Look at both of you. As if from the outside. How beautiful you look! You and he are in your strong hands. A real Madonna and child. 17. Forward! To happy horizons! And may your path be bright
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