2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Usually people really want to find a resource state. They are looking for external and internal resources or suffer from their lack.
But here's what's interesting.
Most of the internal resources are blocked by the imposed programs of life. These can be parental programs or those broadcast by society.
They, like aliens, cause internal conflict.
But the conflict is not between should / should and want. And between it is necessary and I do not want.
In psychotherapy, these programs are discovered and neutralized. The energy absorbed by the inner conflict is released. But a person is faced with the fact that he never knew what he personally wants.
He just didn't want to do what was imposed. And from this he was protected by laziness and procrastination. Yes!
Laziness and procrastination are defense mechanisms in this conflict. So that a person does not burn out, wasting his energy on the implementation of other people's programs.
And all his behavior was avoidance. It was on this avoidance that vital energy was expended.
Laziness and procrastination are energy consuming!
They cause a state of apathy.
And now, in psychotherapy, a person has the opportunity to discover these alien programs, this laziness and the energy that it takes.
And liberation from foreign programs on the principle of a chain reaction frees from laziness and procrastination, freeing up resources.
But man has never thought about what he wants.
And now, when he is in a resource state, he does not know where to direct the resources that have appeared.
He is surprised to find that he has no goals and desires of his own.
But this is only the first moment of releasing internal resources and gaining internal freedom.
So what is next? What's next?
Life begins in the stream. In the flow of "being yourself". When you need to learn to listen, hear and understand yourself. Your needs and feelings. And on their basis, generate your own desires.
Yes, feelings …
Feelings were also blocked. And the ability to express them.
Because it was scary to feel. It could be painful. And within the framework of foreign programs, this is quite natural.
Expressing myself, declaring myself and my needs was also scary.
"What if I say something wrong."
And now, when alien programs have been neutralized, instead of Pain, Laziness and Fear, the companions of a person on the path of life are Happiness, Endowment and Inspiration!
To a light soul and a pure heart, they will prompt those goals that are truly important.
Happiness, Giftedness and Inspiration fill
- power hidden talents of man
- bright impressions and emotions human life
As a result, the ability to express oneself and assert oneself opens up.
And what states accompany you on the path of life?
I am always ready to assist in acquiring resource states and realizing their own goals!
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