2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
1. There is no agreement both within a person and with his soul. There is a lot of struggle with oneself, with one's own decisions and choices. Self-abuse to the point of self-destruction, as well as self-abasement.
2. Refusal to acknowledge your connection with your parents and their influence on yourself. Everything that relates to parents is in fact related to the generic system. Because a person can receive generic resources only through parental figures. Through the Moon, the Universe or what else we cannot take, because we do NOT belong to these energy systems.
3. Shame and guilt that parents and ancestors are somehow wrong, not smart and weak. The desire to remake them, embellish them, rewrite their family history. The setting “why should I know and remember this” or “I am different. I have nothing to do with them."
4. A great desire to save parents and ancestors, to help everyone when not asked, to give advice about which they did not ask. Despite the refusal of parents and relatives to help them stubbornly "doing good". To live with the feeling that I owe my parents and ancestors, because they gave birth to me.
5. Chronic suffering that is present in all areas of life. In this state, a person makes decisions and makes choices. Victimism and masochism became his model of behavior. Silence and endure, take offense and deny your anger is a strategy of behavior.
I say yes to my family and kin
Family and family ties play a big role in our life.
They influence our decisions and choices, our condition and well-being. The feeling of belonging to a family and something big - a family, can fill us with vital energy, which helps a person both to reveal his potential and poison him with all kinds of desires, fears, guilt, shame, impulses that a person cannot influence, up to before self-destruction.
Suffering, repetitions of destinies, heavy losses and illnesses can be triggered through family and family ties. And then a person lives in toxic thoughts "something is wrong with me", "I am somehow (that) wrong", "I was born to be unhappy", "I am probably cursed or spoiled on me" and much more.
Does it make sense to carry this suffering inside yourself for years? They often arise due to a lack of knowledge about how the family - clan system works, what laws it lives, what relationships exist and how they affect others.
And what do you think, so that you would like to know about your family-family system, leave your answer in the comments.
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