Why Change Your Attitude Towards Money?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Money is an important part of our life. We not only live in this world for money. But they help us open important doors - education, medicine, property, business projects, other quality of life. If we lived in the taiga, we would have a different coordinate system, we would solve other problems and even generic prohibitions would be different. But we live in a society in which money is the equivalent of energy, everything is measured by money - your status, the quality of education and health, opportunities and influence.

But it is precisely this important part of our life that causes disgust and contempt for many of us. “Money is evil. All troubles come from money. No money and no problems”, we have heard this since childhood, but even before us our parents, grandparents, great-great-great - ancestors heard it. These limitations are millennia. Because there has always been an ambiguous attitude towards money and wealth in all cultures and countries. We are even born into the family system under its prohibitions and restrictions, in order to either support them or go beyond and create new rules and beliefs.

Most of us find it difficult to look at the figure of Money and even more so to somehow interact with it. Too many bad things share with money - social injustice, powerlessness, shame, guilt, family secrets, patterns and stereotypes.

Once upon a time I, too, stood all like that in a white coat and despised money around me, money in the world and my own money. But then I got into the role of deputy in the constellation, after which I began to have serious changes in the perception of money. This role was an ordinary woman, the wife of a Soviet officer, who always had money. And she loved them, humanly warm and touching. In the substitutionary office, I literally reveled in this love; I saw nothing terrible, terrible or disgusting in money. Money is good, money is always an opportunity, it inspired me so much that I was ready to go and move mountains right now. Even the most inspiration surprised me, this experience of living was completely new for me and, within the framework of my family system, inaccessible to me. But for another family system, in which I was a deputy, this experience was normal, and women and men had respect and even reverence for money.

When I was taken out of the role, of course I was very sad, because this state went away and I again found myself at the mercy of my ancestral restrictions and prohibitions. But this substitute experience was enough for me, after walking for several days under the impression, to begin a personal study of my relationship with the figure of Money.

What is a Money Figure? Why exactly a figure? How to establish contact with her? Do you still need contact with Money? The more I delved into all this, the more I realized how complex this topic is and how deeply it penetrates all areas of our life. We often bury ourselves in relationships with parents, partners and children, we just don’t get our hands on money.

But now I propose to leave alone our favorite long-suffering topics for a while and at least for a short while turn in the direction of money, look at your figure of Money, touch it.