2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
While a person is immersed in a problematic trance, while he is in search of guilty ones that his life is not what he would like, until the stream of claims to his parents runs out, that they should - they were obliged, until sobering comes that it is pointless to wait for love where there is none - a person will always be controlled by his inner child. The part of the personality that supports the self-destructive program.
Because children:
- they do not know how to build a healthy and full-fledged relationship with a partner, they expect someone else to do it for them
- they do not know how to take care and provide for themselves, they expect that it will be done for them by another
- do not know how to handle money, they are waiting for someone else to do it for them
- they do not know how to unpack their potential, take a resource out of loneliness, and out of betrayal of value, they expect someone else to do it for them
- they do not know how to live their life and live it by their own interests, they expect that it will be done for them by another
We are all born physically, but few are also born psychologically. Few can see that the inner child is about self-destruction, but about creation - this is an adult part of the person who knows how not only to take care of himself, but also to build his life, letting others live, and not controlling or teaching everyone.
To see your program of self-destruction, something that does not allow you to psychologically mature and grow up, it is important to understand at what stage in the formation of your personality a failure occurred. What and when broke, in order to understand how to “fix”, “fix” it, to tune with the soul and deep self.
Through what fears does this failure manifest itself? What are the consequences that slow down and stop your adult part of the personality, do not allow it to reveal its potential, take a new place in society, and reach a new quality of life?
Why do so many stop at the level of physical birth and go no further?
Of course there is a benefit. She is to continue to remain in her mother's world, to revel in claims to her, to wait for her to see the light and finally fall in love, or you will save her from her pain and suffering and she will finally understand that it was not in vain that she gave birth to you.
Going further means separating, separating, starting to create your world out of your own rules, values and attitudes - psychologically being born into a new personality, and not into a copy or repetition of parental life, mother's rules and attitudes. Do that and live the way they could not.
Questions to help keep focus on growth, development and movement
1. What makes me happy in life now? What makes me happy about it? How do I feel?
2. What inspires me the most in life now? What turns me on? How does it make you feel?
3. What am I most proud of in my life right now? How do I feel?
4. What am I most grateful for in my life now? What makes me grateful? How do I feel after this?
5. What do I like most in life now? What do I like about this? How does it feel?
6. What is important to me in my life right now? What makes me a devotee in this business? How do I feel?
7. Whom do I love? Who loves me? What makes me love? Like this
is it felt?
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