2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Lying is a widespread communication phenomenon.
There are no people who would not lie at least once in their life!
And two, and three, and five!))))
As a child, they came up with some stories about themselves in order to seem better, more significant among friends!
We lie so as not to offend a person by telling him the truth. We lie so as not to upset parents or avoid a scandal with a husband, wife!
In fact, a lie has a destructive effect on the psyche and on the entire body as a whole. After all, having lied once - a person must control himself constantly!
Remember who, where, when he said something.
I can only imagine how hard it is for such people! Do you agree?
A large number of people lie, maintaining a logical chain, to achieve the goal that they set for themselves, slightly distorting reality.
But there is a so-called pathological lie!
It is based on a great need to get attention and feel your own importance. Such people intuitively feel what everyone needs and are ready to promise it without a twinge of conscience.
These people lie to their spouses that they will come on time, but come at a completely different time. Or they guarantee the completion of the task on the agreed terms in the appointed time and does not fulfill it. Or they rent a cool car, passing it off as their own, just to show off.
They lie everywhere and to everyone❗️
This may be due to personality disorder and may be due to early object relationships between mother and child. In this relationship, the mother does not accept the reality of the child, ignoring or punishing him.
Then the child begins to create his own legend, as they say: "He lies and does not blush!"
Such people are so in agreement with themselves that even on a lie detector, vegetative manifestations of such a person are not often found. They make up history and live it if they are trusted.
In order to work out this problem, a person must realize it and, if necessary, sign up for. Then he will be able to master his behavior and partly choose the punishment, which in any case will come according to the unconscious scenario inherent in this mechanism.
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