2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Self-determination and professional development becomes an integral part of a successful realized personality. You may not go to the office, not work for hire, not be an entrepreneur, but you must have a favorite thing to be happy - this is modern reality.
How can you find it?
I propose to look at the selection from several angles of view.
(1) family history
Even if we live far from our parents and relatives, family still has a significant impact on us and our choices. We absorb family messages through values, attitudes, habits and inner figures that are always within our psyche.
In order not to have an internal conflict, find answers to the following questions for yourself:
What are the professions of your next of kin?
How did they choose their profession?
What is their education level?
Have you changed your profession during your life?
How did their parents feel about their choice? Supported? Criticized?
What career choices and life choices are there in the extended family?
Do you know about the professions in your extended family?
What are the values in your family system? What's important? What is supported and what is punishable?
(2) significant people around you
The idols, the people we admire and the people around us are the ones who send us signals and landmarks in our daily life. It's like being in a room with a pleasant smell - at first you like it, then you don't notice it and perceive it as normal.
Answer yourself a few questions:
What do I like about the people around me?
How would I like to be like them?
Where is the line in their personality and in the business they are doing? How did they succeed? Whereby?
What could I take from them? What to learn?
(3) Propensities
This is usually the most researched block in career guidance. This is what a person likes to do, what he has a soul for, where he rests. Most often these are some kind of hobby-format activities. What can you learn from this area?
What elements in your hobby do you like the most? What part of the process? What do you have a penchant for? Running ahead - choosing a job according to your hobby is wrong, because addictions are about the emotional response of your body and your soul to something, and in order to achieve success and obtain sustainable results, it is very important to overcome obstacles and be able to motivate yourself to work when you have not in the mood
(4) Abilities
This is what you are great at doing, what you do better than others, master better / faster than others. This is about your speed of mastering a skill, the ability to grasp the essence in some area faster and better than others. These are the areas where you will be more successful than others in overcoming obstacles.
(5) The level of your aspirations and goals in other areas of your life
This is what will directly or indirectly shorten your resulting list of professions. Some areas require total dedication and your almost unlimited participation - can you give this if you have a family with 4 children as your first priority?)
What is "normal" for you?
What is success for you?
How much money do you need for your ordinary life?
What social status do you want to have?
What are your goals besides work?
How much time do you need for other areas of your life?
If there is a choice, where will the job be?
Is it possible to succeed in your field if you give it the time that you will have left after other goals.
Have you answered all the questions?
As a result, you should have several variants of profession vectors.
Next step - practical (!) research of assumptions.
Through doing, we get to know ourselves better and what we really like.
I wish everyone to find their own inspiring work in life!
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