How To Avoid Being Tripped By The Genie On The Way To Your Dream?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Two lovers, having overcome such incredible difficulties that can only be in fairy tales, the confrontation with the Genie of the Desert, and knowing that the genies do not really want to fulfill the wishes of some mortals, all the time misinterpreting them in order to leave a person in a fool, at the end of the tale, make the following: “Mutual love, wealth and immortality. On condition of physical health, because “what for such a life”, when its quality tends to zero due to diseases of the body or spirit.

The genie, seeing in front of him the lovers who are quite sophisticated in pronouncing the "correct" desires, is very angry, but still fulfills their desires. And, as it should be, it is washed off with Homeric laughter from the desert. The couple is free. They throw themselves into each other's arms and…. see what is called an oil painting. He and She are decrepit old people. Healthy but old. And ugly, wrinkled everything, well, and the like. It's pretty sad to get this kind of ending to the story. Overlooked, as they say.

However, these two were still very lucky, unlike a black man (an African American or another black comrade) who wished to become white, have a lot of water and many women around. Because, he had to become a toilet in the women's toilet, and after all, what a thing - you can't dig into the "technical task". Everything seems to be correct ….. But it is wrong. Sad, isn't it?

Examples of making wishes at the mercy of the jinn are innumerable. There are many of them. They say that even the Universe (or God himself) plays these games. Adam here, just now in paradise, woke up, and stands, all "blown away". He patted himself on the sides - no ribs! He cried out, “Lord! Where are all my ribs!?! " And a voice from heaven: "And who ate the fermented grapes yesterday and yelled at the whole universe that" girls to me! "? Such pies….

How do dreams come true? The correct answer is something like … Besides, often we do not notice that it is OUR dreams that have come true. I'll explain now. The girl dreams of big money. Indeed, great. And after a while she receives news of the death of a relative to whom she inherits. At such a price did she want wealth? Yes, you will correct me that it is necessary to dream "about great things", not about money, but about wealth.

Well, children are our wealth. Is an unplanned pregnancy exactly what you think? ….

Talk about the "price of desire" begins. Once you get something, something will be "taken away" from you. The question of such an "inadequate price" discourages the desire to "dream" and suggests "to sit quietly, pretend to be rags and not shine." Or maybe it makes sense to set the parameters of your desire ourselves, thereby turning it into … Goal? How do you like this turn of events?

I believe that dreaming is not harmful. We choose the direction of movement with our dreams. We unfold, so to speak, our sails in the right direction, and maybe even paint them in scarlet. And as you know, any ship is very different from something that does not sink in a log. It differs precisely in that it has a Course, in contrast to the fact that it dangles aimlessly in this very hole.

Otherwise, such an innocent desire of Tosya from "Girls" about stacks of men can be understood differently. For example: "I want some infantile men as my sex slaves." And the bright dream “I want to marry a rich man, and no problem a man” may mean “I want to get on with hands” and so on.

Having made a dream concrete (by the result, terms, and so on), we get a guide to action to achieve it. And by this we turn it into a goal. There is a good technology for setting a goal. Acronym SMART, which in English deciphers that the goal should be specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, defined in time.

This goal-setting allows you to avoid the "step of the genie" and "order" yourself the dish that you really want. True, you will also have to cook it personally. But that's a technical matter, right?

So. What does it mean that the goal is set in accordance with SMART technology?

• Obviously, the goal: "to enter Moscow State University for the specialty" Banking "in the correspondence department next year" is more specific than "I want a good job."
• “I want to be rich” is a laudable wish, of course, but what is “rich”? The wording would be much more correct: "Have an annual income of $ 100,000."
• The goals must be achievable in terms of external factors and internal resources. Agree, it is foolish to spend your life on becoming a famous documentary biographer, if at school you were given two marks for essays.
• The goals should relate to other, more general, as well as strategic goals, and work towards their achievement. Those. what you are doing today is necessary in order to get what was planned for the month, and, therefore, meets the main life goals.
• The goal should be clearly defined in time, there should be specific deadlines (and intermediate milestones) for its achievement. I take exactly 2, 5 years and no more to get a second higher education.

In order to remember better the criteria for a competent goal setting, you can use the Russian acronym CREDO. (Specific - Realistic / Effective - Units - Achievable - Defined in time).

Let's speculate about the goals that we usually mean. For example, during the crisis, financial issues came to the fore for many. "I want a million," why is there anything incomprehensible? How many problems can be solved at once, isn't it?

Let's start with specifics. You want a million. What? Rubles, dollars, cuffs, years, candy? Kilos? By clarifying more specifically and introducing units of measurement, we greatly narrow the field of meanings. Determining it in time will also not be superfluous. Because, wanting a million rubles, there is nothing easier to get it …..year after 50. If nothing that you earn, do not spend. This is for example.

Achievable. Are you able to get a million rubles per year on your own? Or does it require "fluke intervention?" Describe that the accident must be "happy", otherwise you can get something like accident insurance.

Realistic, effective, relevant. This means that your “one million dollars right tomorrow with one piece of paper as a result of a lucky chance” will be directed by you for your further development, and not buried in the garden as a “secret”. How these tools will affect your life is what an “effective and relevant” goal means.

It is clear that when you examine your Dream “under a magnifying glass”, you will understand that in just a couple of years you will realize it in a way known to you, your dream will already come closer to its realization. For example, the dream “someday I will have my own home” is unlikely to come true if you dream of this dream lying on the couch with a cookie in your hands.

Another thing is that the dream is “I'm going to build a house, cost…. by such and such a year, in such and such a place, having taken money there, with the hands of someone, for housing, for recreation, for receiving guests, an area such and such, a bathhouse and billiards are attached becomes some kind of … not. a dream … What is already a banal routine. Sounds like an action plan. Is this how to live now without a Dream?

If you want to keep it, crystal, I mean "dream", say "someday I …." etc. Someday never comes Never! And your Dream will be safe!)

For those who are ready to abandon it for the sake of its embodiment - welcome to realize your CREDO!