3 Mistakes Women Make About Money

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Sometimes women wonder why it is easier for men to make money? And do they have more salaries and in business they are more likely to be successful? And there is even confirmation of statistics. Of the 11 million millionaires, 27% are women. Of the 2 thousand 694 billionaires, 243 are women.

This situation is not because men are lucky or the world is imprisoned for them, or something is wrong with women.

It's just that women's interaction with money is fundamentally different from men's.

Many women are afraid of contact with money, especially with large amounts. It is easier for them to receive money through someone, and not through their own exchange with the world. It is not easy to withstand any monetary energy - loans, debts, disorderly and useless purchases, inability to build your monthly budget - they talk more about draining money than about the ability to dispose of them.

Often, the movement towards money, the ability to take and dispose of it overrides the generic prohibition on life, generic fidelity to the ancestors: “you suffered and I will be like you”, “you lived in short supply and I will somehow live”, “you were afraid of money and I will . These are all generic patterns of the deep unconscious, family field.

Men also have deep prohibitions on life and money, but they intuitively overcome many of them, it is more difficult for women to do this. Because women still have separate relationships and money. Extremes - either love or wealth - work in the negative.

Women's mistakes in relationships with money:

Mistake # 1. Consider your life and build it in complete financial dependence on your husband.

Men come and go. And when a woman remains at the broken family ship, unlike a man, she has to build her contact with money from scratch. And it can take years. And regret came: "maybe you had to endure, but I would have been with the money now." And this further complicates the emotional funnel that a woman often gets into after a divorce, betrayal or betrayal.

Mistake # 2. Build your life under a blueprint of my mother's picture of the world.

At a deep unconscious level, women often turn to their mother. “How was it with her? And why did she live in prosperity, and I go from credit to credit? In the modern world there is a feature that did not exist 30-40 years ago - a generation gap. The world is changing so rapidly that my mother's advice and views no longer work. Mom can support, but to understand instead of you in the modern source of income - information business, startups, online stores, etc. - is often not. It is important for a mother that her daughter marries successfully and her husband provides for her. But when mistake number 1 happens and a woman is left alone with debts, loans and uncertainty about the future, it is important for a woman to form her own picture of the world, and not to cling to her mother's world. Get in touch with your desires and needs, not your mother's and be able not to confuse them.

Mistake number 3. Fight men, proving to them that the female is cooler than the male.

Choosing a career, her own business or business, a woman enters into open interaction with society. She has the opportunity to gain resources that have never been in the family or to strengthen those already available. And all this requires interaction with men, on whom there are many grievances and claims, with which a woman, instead of cooperation, begins to compete or take revenge, and instead of exchange, control and rule. Any struggle between internal and external, visible and invisible, takes away strength and closes new opportunities. Which? For example, grow up on conflict, and transform control and distrust in exchange.