2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
About femininity and male-female relations.
Case (case) from my psychotherapeutic practice.
(Materials posted with the permission and consent of the client)
A girl turned to me for advice with the request "Unsuccessful personal life, it is impossible to build harmonious relationships with men."
There are no external prerequisites for this phenomenon.
As if there is a certain psychological block that prevents the construction of these relations.
The work was carried out on metaphorical maps.
The muscle test confirmed that the cause of this problem lies in its generic structure.
We looked at several generations of her ancestors, and found a pattern there - the impossibility of showing her femininity, a strict subconscious ban was placed on this, associated with some events in her family. Now this was passed on to her in the form of generic loyalty, i.e. devotion to one's family in not manifesting one's feminine qualities because of love for one's family.
Loyalty (devotion to one's family in not being feminine) is that it was not customary then to express one's feelings, one had to fight, survive at any cost, there was no question of femininity.
But now the time is different, and the patterns of behavior remain the same.
This was transmitted to her in the form of a subconscious attitude that if she begins to show her femininity, she will cease to be devoted to her family and cease to be a member of her kind, and this is fraught with big problems. A person cannot live outside his tribal system, this is his strength, energy and at the same time all the problems that come from there.
But everything can be fixed, and quite quickly.
This is where metaphorical maps come to the rescue - an ideal tool for working with generic structure and generic loyalty (see my video on generic loyalty).
Therefore, you need to work with such loyalty and it only takes 1 hour! Yes, working with loyalty is relatively easy if you know the technology, from the outside it seems miraculously unrealistic, but it really works very powerfully, which has been repeatedly confirmed by my grateful clients.
In session 2, we successfully worked on generic loyalty, and now the manifestation of femininity was not prohibited, now you can show it, live with it, expand your filter of perception of reality, see new options and thus form a new reality around you and get high-quality and necessary results.
On the "Catomotions" deck, we found those personality traits that need to be developed in order to build harmonious relationships with men, and then, of course, there were insights (insights), a deeper understanding of oneself and a partner appeared.
What's inside is outside - says the law of duality. Consequently, after such a strong study, reality began to change in an incredible way !!!
The most seemingly complex and serious issues are solved in 1-2 sessions on these cards. 1 session - to find where this problem comes from and where it has roots and 1 more session - to eliminate this phenomenon! I don't know a faster and more efficient tool for solving such problems (at least not yet)!
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