2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Probably now the times have come when people involuntarily come to the realization that it is fashionable to live modestly. Moreover, in all absolute senses - moral, material and even mental. What does that mean? This means that the pandemic has taught us to economize and calculate our strength, to be ready for anything, not to rush to dissipate, to love moderation in everything.
On the one hand, it is like voluntarily building limiting beliefs. But if you change the vector of approach to many problems, it will become clear that the rich also cry, and no one is immune from any force majeure.
Emotionally, you don't want to boil and boil as it used to be. And isn't it strange to see how "the whole nation is having fun and rejoicing" when anxiety and a suppressed negative mix of fear, expectation of a new trick, the consequences of the stress experienced and still experienced is superimposed on the reasons for the fun?
But it’s not bad to live modestly. There is a purification of thoughts, an ordering of feelings, a reasonable economy of energy, time, finances. No wonder they say that modesty adorns a person - it really is. Restraint, slowness of reactions attracts, in any case - does not repulse.
And minimalism, as a philosophy of life, is attracting more and more people. Littering up your life in an excessive amount of things, unnecessary people, useless actions becomes a sign of bad taste.
How to define the edge of modesty? After all, what is redundant for one person may be vital for another. The attitude, inclusiveness and the ability to listen to oneself, other people, and the world around us are very important here.
Having received the practice of a modest life, many consciously do not want to return to the field of thoughtless absorption of pleasures, information, communication, material wealth. The cleansing of the soul and body is fascinating, and now a person chooses existence without consumption for future use and beyond, stops at a simple satisfaction of reasonable needs.
How do you feel about someone simplifying your life? Or is it better when it splashes over the edge?
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