2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
It was a 38-year-old woman, I will call her Tatiana.
She was desperate. Once again, her loved one disappeared without explanation. This was the third time in 20 years.
- Well, it cannot be that such a close person, who made an offer yesterday, took it today and suddenly disappeared into no one knows where without explaining the reasons. This is the only person I need. Only he is dear and beloved. And I know that he loves me too. - Tatiana explained her situation.
At the time when this disappearance of a loved one happened once again, Tatyana was married, she had a son in this marriage. And her beloved for these 20 years was married once and for a very short time, lived alone and had no children.
I did not immediately understand her, suggesting that there are problems in the relationship with her husband.
- No, my husband is a good man, I have no complaints about him, everything is fine with us, he treats me very well. But I have never felt anything for my husband, he just is and that's it. My problem is not him. I knew my beloved person even before I met my husband, and then we were going to get married when he disappeared for the first time.
In practice, it turned out that her grandmother and her husband once lived in Novosibirsk. And when their child was two years old, the grandmother abruptly gathered and left with the child for another city without giving any reasons. She just left her husband, crossed him out of her life, as if it never happened. Since then, the child also did not know anything about his father. She said she did it because she got bored. My grandmother never got married, but she never regretted her act either.
When her beloved disappeared for the last time, she went to the monasteries to seek help and answers to her questions. But the priests only explained to her that she must reconcile and live with her husband.
But Tatiana could not come to terms. Resignation for her meant living without joy in a state of devastation.
But it was just such feelings that her grandfather once experienced when he was suddenly left without a wife and daughter.
In practice, we unraveled the fate of ancestors and descendants, Tatyana sighed with relief. And after that, she managed to establish mutual flows of warmth and love with an important person for her.
How her real life developed in the future, I do not know. The important thing is that she finally got out of the flow of other people's feelings and scenarios. And she will no longer have to put up with the inner devastation that she experienced while in the negative scenario of her ancestors.
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