False Beliefs About Time And Age

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

We may have 2 false opinions about time and age.

1. We live life, putting aside a lot for later. As if our life does not have a final point.

2. We block ourselves with age.

Once, at one of the seminars on psychology, I heard such an idea. “A person lives for himself and thinks, now I will study at a university-school, while I will live. I learned. When I find a job, I start enjoying life. Found. Here I will meet the love of my life, how we start to get high. Found. And then, children, grandchildren … I will retire as soon as I live. I came out, but my strength is not the same …"

This scenario is more suitable for my parents' generation. However, it should be borne in mind that all age categories have their own "postpone for later". My generation does not strive to create a family and have children. Today's schoolchildren don't all want to keep learning.

In addition to something global, more significant, we still postpone small amenities. Don't buy sneakers that you really like. Don't go to the cinema or theater. Don't go to some kind of seminar. Do not start playing guitar, ballet, fencing, etc. Do not use beautiful dishes, as you yourself are not interested. Do not prepare food for yourself (for the same reason as the dishes). And when to start all this?

Each of us has something that we want and never do. “I dream someday …” And if this “someday” does not come? Why postpone? After all, most of our wishes we can begin to implement today. It is very important to start acting the moment the desire arises. Forces and energies will be directed to its implementation, and not to complaining that for some reason we cannot get what we want. When we go to the goal, the path itself makes us happier, fills life. To put off for later means to exhaust yourself with dissatisfaction.

Do you want a more harmonious and joyful life? Live as if there is no tomorrow. But at the same time, expect it to come. Everything that you can knead in one day - do it. Create families, give life to children, have cats and dogs, go to the next training, visit the city of which you have long dreamed of. The more experience in the realization of the desired, the more life is filled with meanings, energy, happiness, positive.

Age. I often hear people say: "It's too late for me, I'm 40 - 50 - 60 …". As long as we live, it's not too late! It is not too late to change your profession, start a new relationship, move to another city or even a country, make new acquaintances, be interested in another hobby. Each age has its own internal state. It is quite possible that, for example, at the age of 30 you were not yet ripe to open your own business of forging metal, and at 53 you felt these forces in yourself.

It is very important not to dwell on one thing just because you are limiting yourself to age. My father, at 62, graduated from diving school, moreover, in another country and in a language that is difficult for him. He passed the exams the best in the group. He just really wanted to be able to dive underwater. My father-in-law at 73 is going to go to university to study philosophy. He also began to write, as he felt that he had accumulated a lot of knowledge that he wanted to pass on to his sons and grandchildren. There are many such examples. And if there is someone who does this and thinks without limiting yourself to age, then why can't you be this person?

You may have many desires. And you are able to implement them. The only things you have to remember are:

1. Don't put them off until later.

2. Know that at every age you can definitely fulfill your desires, change your life and develop.