2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Once, one Man was sincerely perplexed: what did he do wrong, why does his woman leave? Although more often it happens the other way around, the Woman wonders: why am I doing wrong, I forgive him so much, I endure, I am for him …?
No, not there, I will allow myself to answer in the first person: If the one who is next to me, "ALLOWS" me to do what follows my nature, and he misses at this time, then for me this is not ACCEPTANCE at all, it is PATIENCE. I do in this life what I can do with such a quality only "I", then inside myself I cannot help but do it.
When a person waits until I am free and the word "WE" will call his process of consuming me and still be offended. After all, he is so patient, and I am ungrateful - I do not agree to sacrifice the Whole World for the sake of such a generously-sacrificially closed for others and ajar towards me. Yes, love is hard for such people, and here, of course, we must pay tribute to the fact that when everyone around is "strangers", then someone beacons for them as "dear and safe", and most importantly, very resourceful. So I want to endure for the sake of the resource and announce the hackneyed phrase - "I accept." Oh, how DIFFICULT it really is …
If you ACCEPT a person, then there can be no thought of PATIENCE. I am amazed, at the most, or amazed at least, by his actions (even if there is no me in this action). I am INTERESTED in His ACTIVITY and there is its nature. In this contact, my ACTIVITY will be in the same direction, without ideas I will like it in order to strengthen the existing FLOW, and it is EASY. By stopping the “beloved” with active PERTURBATION or passive PATIENCE, I suppress his nature. It means that I am in contact not with HIM, but with my concept. This is how parting happens even before … parting. Patience only delays the internal fact that has happened.
If you have to ENDURE - let go, let go completely. You will save your time and the life of another for LIVE events and relationships.
If a man was a man and a woman was a woman
There is such a primordially feminine quality - acceptance. A real host woman. If she has already chosen a man, she literally takes everything from him. At the same time, a strong man who follows his own path is not an obliging boy. When a woman encounters a spiritually and socially whole man, she feels his strength.
It doesn't matter what his appearance is or how old he is. At one of the trainings, women shared their impressions of such a man: “He is like a high-voltage pole. He comes in, and the whole space starts to glow from him."
With such a man there will be a woman who understands that he is right in everything. And the man, in turn, will remain with the woman with whom he is better off than without her, and she does NOT prevent him from moving where he was striving without her.
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