I See You. We Are Of The Same Blood. We Are Both Alive

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

In the world of consumption, people have long become each other's objects and a set of functions. To see each other as a living person, to accept him, to come closer and to love us all is both desirable and scary. to do this, you must first approach yourself to the living and love yourself as you are.

Some signs that we are treating ourselves like living people. And we also treat others as individuals.

I AM ALIVE and HE IS ALIVE if:

• I have the right to think about myself. eat, love, sleep, cry, * rest as much and when I need it.
• I have the right to choose and not choose. I have the right to choose or not to choose.
• I have the right to change my choice in a minute, and many, many times. And others have the right to do so too.
• I can be chosen - not chosen - chosen again.
• I am taken into account in space: do you need a towel? Will you eat with us? Can I hear your voice? How can I help you?
• I take into account the other person in space, I know what he loves, what he fears, what he dreams about. I ask his opinion, wants, needs and feelings.
• I have the right to ask questions. say yes and no. clarify, be uncomfortable, intrusive, arrogant, stupid, inept. The other is entitled too.
• I can negotiate, discuss, negotiate and renegotiate again and again.
• I admit relations from the positions of "superstructure from above", "superstructure from below", on equal terms. I choose and communicate consciously.
• I look at myself. I look at others. I see myself and others as they are.
• I suggest. I insist. I stay when they kick me out. I allow myself to cry to suffer to love as I can and as it turns out.
• I am asking for help. I ask for advice. I'm asking for pens.
• I move away, I approach, I do as my body - mind - feelings do. I study. I am developing.
• I myself choose to be an object and a function for me, convenient, or alive and uncomfortable. This is my choice and I am responsible for it.
• If I am sick, I heal myself and take care of myself. I give the opportunity to others to treat me and look after me.
• I'm building relationships. I can go with a person into the depths - into the heights - into the breadth and into the distance …
• I am mutual.
• I consider my life. I respect and take into account the liveliness of the other person.
• I I transparently communicate my contracts, decisions, desires. I consciously choose to communicate through the "functions" of the role, mask, or without them.
• I am mutual with the world 50x50. 50 are my actions, and 50 are all other people, objects and phenomena.

to be continued