About Female Arousal

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

About female sexuality

About female arousal

In fact, this article will focus on female sexuality. But I very strongly associate these two concepts - arousal and sexuality of a woman. Why? Let's first figure out what female sexuality is and how it is expressed.

I think everyone will agree with me that women's sexuality is clearly not a neckline, bright makeup, a short skirt and a long stiletto heel. A woman can be dressed in a tracksuit and absolutely no makeup and still be sexy for men. I knew one such lady in my life. When she walked down the street, all the men turned around. She was often brought up just like that, and it often happened that strangers almost called her to get married. Because when a man started talking to her, he could no longer forget her. At the same time, outwardly, she was nothing special, yes, beautiful enough, the figure was nothing, but really, nothing special. What's the secret?

Oh, you should have seen how she carried herself - straight posture, confident gait, always smiling a little, and most importantly, open to people internally. I have not known any other woman who exuded as much inner dignity as she did. It is just a simple inner dignity! And no arrogance. No pathos or mannerisms. She was just open to people. Anytime, any day. She was like an angel who came down to earth of her own free will and wished everyone well. It was incredible tempting! Sometimes even women!

So - female sexuality is not about the external, it is about the internal state of a woman. It doesn't matter how much you weigh, how expensive your clothes are, how many jewelry you are wearing, whether you are wearing makeup. How you feel is important. I know one woman who outwardly does not pull the female ideal, but men always curl around her. And most importantly, she feels like a woman! She knows that men see her as a woman, she knows that she is gorgeous, no matter what she is wearing or how she looks on the outside!

Do you feel that you are the woman who wants, if not every man, then at least every second? Do you feel that you are choosing what kind of man to be with and how? Do you feel that when you walk down the street, you radiate such beauty and femininity that no one else exudes? Do you feel like a gorgeous woman? Do you feel like a woman who can give a man everything he needs and get everything you need from him? If yes, then you do not need this article, you already know everything about sexuality.

When a woman allows herself to be a woman and radiate her femininity, only the most deaf-blind-dumb will not feel it.

There is also a second secret of female sexuality - female arousal. Recently, women often come to me in therapy, who are married, or almost married, who have a man, and they suppress their sexuality. Have you noticed how extinct married women often look? As if there were no women left in them at all.

Well, yes, society has taught us so that if you have a man, you should not have another, otherwise there is a risk that you will be called a whore. From this fear and possible shame, the woman begins to restrain and suppress her impulses of excitement. As if in fear that he would not be able to resist, and if he shows even a small share of his excitement, even a little, it will already be regarded as "bad." Or that if he shows even a little bit, then the situation may go too far.

In the end, what does she get? Her arousal sooner or later turns out to be completely suppressed, even to her husband. And where excitement is suppressed, life is suppressed.

I'm not saying now that you need to have sex with all the men you like. God forbid! In my opinion, the main thing is to notice this excitement. Who forbids us to flirt with another man, blink his eyes and just have fun talking? Who prevents us from feeling like a woman when we see another man’s interested gaze? Accepting a compliment from another man? Only ourselves.

Because we are afraid of ourselves and our natural sexuality. Is it true that we know about our arousal, except that from childhood we were suppressed? Excessive excitement in us was suppressed immediately (including non-sexual). And that's good, that's how we learned to be socially decent. But also, in this way, we have suppressed the true woman in us.

I remember when I was 12 years old, I flocked in a common vestibule, and while my mother was talking with a neighbor, she fiddled with her skirt, to which my mother said sharply to me: "Stop it, are you a prostitute?" I was very offended then and did not understand how this simple action indicates that I can be a prostitute. I thought about it for a long time. And then there was all the talk of men and other women - oh, the horror, what a husband she has, and she went to drink coffee with another man! Well, of course, there are worse stories. So we get lost in the world of sexuality. It becomes too difficult to understand what is good and what is bad. Therefore, we decided that it is better to suppress any impulses of excitement, then as if you remain a worthy member of society.

So for me, sexuality is also an opportunity to admit my arousal and the ability to deal with it freely. For example, with this man I am ready to smile, to communicate sincerely and nothing more, but with that guy I am ready to flirt and nothing more. And this man is mine in every sense and I am his.

Only in your hands is the further development of events with each specific man. And I think that if you are over 20 years old, then you are already quite able to control your arousal. And turn on the head before moving on. Just trust yourself, your body, your impulses and your voice of reason. Strike a balance. And life will be brighter! First of all for you!