2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
First, you learn to love yourself, then a person similar to you, and only after that you have the courage to love someone different? Karl Whitaker
Tolerance comes from the Latin word tolerare - to endure, endure, endure, get used to. The term is used in various industries.
Let's talk about tolerance in sociology. This is tolerance for a different worldview, lifestyle, behavior and customs. Now this has become a stumbling block for just a colossal number of people.
There was a feeling that the world is divided in two precisely by tolerance. The main characteristic of peaceful coexistence becomes the cause of completely non-peaceful events and socio-political processes.
Why is this happening? And what can be done?
There are many reasons for this, but primarily psychological ones. The basis of a tolerant personality is made up of:
- self-love, - a sense of boundaries, - Adoption.
In consciousness, tolerance takes the form of ideas and attitudes. The connection of these ideas to self-love, boundaries and acceptance is not always obvious, but tolerance for one's neighbor cannot exist without them.
Like any other idea, tolerance spreads in two ways: learning and birth. Teaching ideas directly seems to be the fastest and easiest way. Most often, propaganda and preaching are used for this. What happens when tolerance is imposed by such intolerant methods?
Psychologically unfounded tolerance appears. Which leads to reverse discrimination, volunteer fanaticism and the desire for a social utopia. And now the most peaceful idea already leads to human casualties and excesses. A kind of doing good.
This was the case with the spread of Christianity and the construction of communism. Tolerance becomes a source of destruction, leveling and depersonalization.
Color becomes more important than personality. In the jokes and films of my childhood, the reds fought with the whites. Now tolerant of all colors are at war with whites. In truth, the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
What to do in this situation?
Work on the foundation of tolerance. Love yourself, feel your boundaries and accept the world. But it is not enough to have an idea in your mind, it is important to learn to feel it emotionally.
If tolerance was not born in your soul in childhood or did not appear there in adolescence, it does not matter. You can always start working on yourself. Psychotherapy and tolerant parenting of your own children can make a difference.
The most unexpected and paradoxical is that a person who loves himself, feels the boundaries and knows how to accept the world will not necessarily be tolerant. It happens.
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