Tolerance Post

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Tolerance post

There is a saying - there is nothing worse than habit. But, in my opinion, even worse habits are invisible.

Remember the situation in which a person discovers that there is a pebble in his shoes that makes every step unbearable, painful. Getting rid of it brings both relief in walking and the feeling that the world has become more beautiful.

Now let's imagine that circumstances have developed in some other way:

You are at an official reception where you cannot take off your shoes in public

You are in a public place and are very shy of the views of others, the pebble is still with you

· You decide that you will go to the work of the school house, and there you will clean it up, but for now it’s still bearable, well, not on the go!

Convince yourself that you think there is something foreign in your shoes

· You suspect that this is a conspiracy, and nothing in your behavior will betray to the enemy what you have seen through him. You can live like that until you squeeze the ill-wishers.

· Suddenly you realize that having endured the discomfort from the presence of the stone, you will be able to pump endurance and will. Perhaps you will even become close to understanding the essence of the samurai code, and there it is already not far from the Jedi

Assume that this is the case for everyone, and, in general, for whom it is easy now, and so it is possible to live

You realize that mom and dad she (substitute your version), most likely, would be proud of the fact that you courageously and steadfastly endure such an unpleasant burden

· Recognize that by trying to change the situation, you can attract the attention of the environment, which will understand what has happened to you. It is preferable to get along, and it massages the leg

· Freeze from realization - this could only happen to you, a loser. After that, you will stay in place for a long time without movement, if not at all.

· A thought breaks through you - this could only happen to you. After which you are trying to convey to the whole world the uniqueness of what happened to you, and yours too, in fact

Find the best way for you to solve this annoying situation

· You understand that you yourself do not see a way out. Then you turn to someone who has either successfully solved similar problems at home, or find a master specializing in this topic.

The pebble, of course, acts as an example, as an element of the equation. And what happens if we substitute for it:

- Loneliness

- Irritation

- Anger

- Heartache

- Feelings of grief, loss or loss

- Sadness, longing, despondency

- Situations where people are humiliated by unjustified restriction of rights / are subjected to violence in any of its manifestations

- Your option

What happens when we "live with pebbles in a shoe"? We adapt, get used to it. The leg will eventually bend along the contours of the pebble, albeit with suffering, pain and discomfort. The further, the more permanent this process becomes. It will not be the same without the "familiar and familiar" you yourself remember where. Life will be revisited for the sake of this feature. In the worst case, you can become an attachment to the situation and survive, serving it.

Be vigilant, do not get used to unnecessary things.

And seek psychological help if you get confused.