2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
But at the same time, the desire to keep oneself in the focus of attention dominates, so as not to dissolve again, like sugar in tea, in some super-significant object in trousers that exists here and now.
For example, Internet communication is addictive and does not give strength in time to jump into what is really happening. My client said today: “Well, why do I need these members @ us from the Internet? Fair and understandable - girls, more than dicks, still love diamonds.
You can prove yourself a hundred times as a stunning sexy - in a gadget, but in fact, intelligence, talent and healthy enterprise are more appreciated. Then someone will try for you, and not you, to look for flaws in yourself and correct your appearance.
Don't give a damn - if you become a professional, finish a long-planned business MBA course, finally learn an intrinsic one to a tolerable level, you will no longer want to sit all night at the monitor and wait for God to reassure you - a message from a virtual partner.
Of course, erotica will not hurt, but sticking to Internet games - never. You can, for example, set yourself a goal - to make money on earrings with diamonds. Moreover, if you do not expect them as a gift from a man, your self-esteem will simply skyrocket.
The bottom line is that any codependent relationship occurs where one of the partners has high expectations for the other. Relax, breathe out, let go … Here I, for example, write about relationships, about emotional dependence. I do not invite clients - they are there themselves, they come to the texts.
So in communication in a couple - if you live for your own pleasure, and do not drag forever after your partner - both feelings on his part and interest in you will catch up. One has only to fall in love with real diamonds a little more than a fairytale hero from the Internet.
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