2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Have you ever noticed such a feature … husbands carry some women in their arms, prepare breakfast for them in bed, help in everyday life, try to earn money for the family, give gifts, etc. Other women enviously look after them and cannot boast of such a relationship with their husband.
You can find many reasons and explanations for this, and many of them will be correct. But today, in this publication, I want to touch upon such a skill of wise women as the ability to ask for help from your beloved man. This skill is beneficial not only for women, but also for men. A woman, seeing the care and help from her man, feels loved and makes her life much easier in some matters. A man, on the other hand, is able to prove himself as the "stronger sex" of humanity and, with the correct reaction of a woman, to receive "bonuses" for his courage.
Let's take an example of the speech pattern of successful communication.
Example:
"Honey, you must be very interested to watch this program. When it ends, please help me hang the curtains in the kitchen. I am small and hard to reach, and you are so tall."
When he agrees, he will thank him with the words "Thank you, dear!"
And when he fulfills the request, he will say the following: "You are such a fine fellow, you hung up so quickly. Thank you for helping, I am so pleased."
This example can be presented in the form of a speech pattern for a request for help:
- Gentle treatment - sweet, dear, beloved, bunny, etc.
- Understanding - words of understanding that he is busy, tired, or simply does not want to do it.
- An explanation of the request in detail. This means not speaking in general phrases "Prepare food", but detailing for whom, for what meal (breakfast, lunch, etc.) and what to cook from.
- Explanation of the meaning of the request. Explain why you cannot do it yourself (I need time, I have a fever, I feel bad, I need to wash, reply to a message, etc.).
- Words of gratitude. (so nice, thank you, you are such a fine fellow, smart, strong, you supported me very much, etc.) Thank you often and regardless of whether you asked him for help or not. And even if he "badly" fulfilled your request - do not depreciate, do not criticize, do not find fault, do not boil. Otherwise, you risk turning into an ungrateful old woman from A. Pushkin's fairy tale "The Golden Fish".
Of course, this communication will not work with all men. Some men who come into a woman's life are characterized by extreme selfishness, immaturity and even chauvinism towards women.
But there are other examples when a kind, active, caring man, having lived for years next to an ungrateful woman, loses all interest not only in her, but also in any activity in the house. And in such a family there is no one to nail a nail …..
Dear women, be gentle, feminine, loving and grateful! And may love always reign in your family !!!
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