2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
LEGEND OF OUR TIME
Once upon a time there lived a small and very beautiful girl. Her parents were not scheduled.
The girl's father went on the run immediately after her birth.
The mother suffered from a mental disorder and could not raise her daughter: therefore, she sent her to her sister, who in turn sent her first to a child's home, and then to an orphanage.
The little girl grew up and turned into the most beautiful and desirable girl, and many noble people of that country sought her hands.
But, despite the fact that she became famous and in life she was everywhere successful, she did not believe either that she was beautiful or that she was desired.
When she was little, she was offended, rejected and humiliated so many times that now she devoted all her time only to making as many people as possible love her. Constantly unhappy, depressed, she began to drink, try drugs to drown out the desperate pain in her soul.
She got married three times, and all three times she came across husbands who did not love her and did not respect her as a person. And whenever her marriage fell apart, fell apart, she felt even more unhappy.
The stream of applicants for her hand did not stop, but she did not understand people well and rejected worthy admirers; and, on the contrary, she was carried away only by those men who only used her for their own purposes, or were married, or were unable to love her and put her below themselves, pushed her around and rejected her as a person.
In all this, she considered only herself to be guilty.
She fell into a vicious circle from which she could not get out. She was afraid of loneliness, was jealous to madness, she was constantly consumed by inexplicable anxieties, oppressed by chronic depression - and now she became addicted to alcohol, drugs, sex.
When she looked at herself in the mirror, she felt only hatred and disgust. It seemed to her that she was ugly, that she was a complete failure, that she was a person who was not worthy of love.
She had twelve or thirteen abortions, more than twenty operations, she tried seven times to commit suicide. She died at the age of thirty-six.
Her name was Marilyn Monroe.
Almost all people who were born and lived in destructive families suffer from Marilyn Monroe syndrome. Where there was no love, manifestation of care, feelings, support and participation.
In the following notes I will write how such people choose their partners for relationships, which partners they are attracted to, how they build relationships with themselves and others, and how to cope with it.
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