5 Reasons Why A Man Starts To Hate

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

For which a man is able to hate his once beloved woman. Is the woman herself always the cause of this change?

1. Awareness that it is being use

A man for the sake of his beloved woman is ready for deeds and deeds. He helps, looks after, gives gifts, or believes that he spends a lot of strength and energy on her, even if the woman herself does not notice it. But if he doubts that a woman needs him, and not his benefits, think that he is being used as a resource - this enrages him and he is ready to hate her with the same force that he once loved.

The reason for this doubt may be both the woman herself, and the fact that the man expected some kind of reaction in response, by which he would understand that he was needed and loved, but sometimes not only the woman who loves him does not understand exactly what the response behavior should be. but also himself.

2. Public humiliation

Jokes, jokes, careless statements in front of others. The man is used as a background to emphasize the dignity and importance of a woman. It is used for comparison: “I can, but he cannot”, “even I could”, “well, where is he without me”, “I am for him, and he …”.

Men try not to find themselves in such a relationship, nevertheless there are such couples. And if in the first example hatred is more often expressed in open indignation and indignation, then in such relationships it is growing, hidden and manifests itself in delayed and, as if not related to the incident, reactions, when a man begins to do what infuriates and irritates his woman, accidentally or finding a "good" reason for this.

3. Inability to show weakness

Even the strongest, most serious, brave, brave, etc. a man may get tired, silly, irritable, or on the verge of despair. Not every woman is capable of treating him at these moments with the same warmth and care as in the moments of his power.

Should a woman endure a man's weakness and support him in these moments? Is it always possible and does she have enough strength for this? But it also happens that this weakness begins to be used by a woman against her own man in order to prove something, show or just recoup, this is what gives him the feeling of impossibility, to be next to her weak, to be himself. There is a feeling that he is loved only by "good", successful, and this gives rise to doubts about her attitude towards him in general.

4. Treason and betrayal

When "his woman" is on the side of the other. When it is crossed out and neglected in favor of another person. And this is not only sex, flirting, but also important questions for him, ideas, traditions and even work.

Everyone has their own boundaries and understanding of "betrayal". Can a woman always understand that she is crossing this line? Could a man show her what he considers impermissible, or this border is "floating" and more and more prohibitions appear, and a woman's life turns out to be similar to the work of a sapper.

5. Because he just needs to hate

People are alive, it is not necessary to "breathe life" in them like in fairy tales, or to charge them like batteries, they themselves are able to give rise to feelings for another, and this other does not always give a reason for this or deserves such an attitude. After all, feelings come FROM, not FROM, feelings awaken, not inspire. Like love, hatred can arise due to many reasons for the formation and formation of a person, and be in no way connected with the one at whom it is directed (for example, at some point, a person may perceive his love for another as an addiction that needs to be gotten rid of).

In this case, no matter how a woman tries to guess, adapt and meet the requirements of her beloved man, he will still find reasons and reasons to justify his hatred. Then is it worth taking full responsibility for the feelings of the other?

In any of the above cases, a woman can give a real reason for hatred, but sometimes it is an inner experience of doubt, mistrust that makes a man find reasons precisely in female behavior. Often, women themselves try to explain the feelings of another to find reasons in their own behavior, although the man did not give a reason for this.

Where do feelings actually come from, from the behavior of another or from ourselves? The constant search for your mistakes through the attitude of another to us - is it a desire to become better and to be liked, or an attempt to control? Or something else.