2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Many sit and wait - let everything happen somehow by itself - they will appreciate, notice, find, fall in love, pull me out of the hole, that is, they will do everything for me, and I just need to lie down and dream or meditate.
Or the other extreme - a person really does a lot to change his life, but there is no change. Everything seemed to be frozen in a dead center.
Both in the first and in the second case, a person is taking the wrong steps that he really needs in order for the energy to start moving. A person thinks and acts stereotypically, according to a template. Everyone goes to yoga for health improvement, and I will. Everybody gets married and I will. Everyone works for someone, and I will. But it does not happen that what worked for one also helps another. This is me about the fact that someone else's success cannot be repeated, someone else's comfortable and well-trodden path cannot be walked, someone else's happiness cannot be enjoyed. By clinging to social templates, it is impossible to get on your Path. On the contrary, they take him further and further away from him, making a person weak and dependent, submissive and comfortable.
For example, there is such a stereotype - if you want to help, go to medicine or psychology. If you want attention and adoration - go to the artists. If you want to build - go to the builders or architects. But if a person had the skill of working with the Field, he would know that all these I want have nothing to do with him, because very often what we need, that is, what will move us forward, does not coincide with what we want. This does not mean that a doctor, psychologist, artist or builder are bad professions, it means that behind our "want" there may be something more than us. For example, the family speakers that are now in the Field, about the huge number of victims who did not escape, did not survive and were forgotten. About losses and hard fates, in which unconscious strategies of behavior were formed - to be in search, to find, to change, to save, or, conversely, to be stuck in one job for decades. Living in a marriage, but at the same time being lonely or living in debt and monetary losses all the time. To vegetate in fear, to change something, or to finally break away from someone.
The most amazing thing is that everyone has their own personal Path and it is often possible to restore reference points to it through the family Field. Descending into primary feelings and joining the Field, a person has the opportunity to find out what he really needs now, in which direction to move, what to do. In the family Field, there are no stereotypes and patterns at all, because they are from a fantasy world. And a person moves towards changes only when there is contact with Life, with reality, there is a clear understanding of where - why - for what. What steps to take, what decisions need to be made now, what to remove from your life, what to start implementing, what is important to learn and what talent requires its disclosure and inclusion in the system. What place in society does a person claim to be and what new social role he needs to master. All this is in the Field now for everyone. It is from this that a person refuses when he turns to social patterns and begins to perform stereotypical actions, in which there is more chaos and losses than real movement towards change.
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