2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
With age, all people change, externally and internally. In connection with these understandable changes, the attitude towards some aspects of our life is changing. Today I want to share with you my observations on how the attitude of men towards women is changing precisely based on the question. In no way do I presume that the information below is absolutely correct for 100% of men, but still.
Relationships, which are usually called love, do not consist of this one feeling, not this one feeling. In my opinion, this is a kind of mix of emotions, desires, experiences and beliefs. Moreover, all this is not always fully realized by the person himself. For a more revealing analysis, I took two age categories - young people over the age of 18 and men over 40.
So, for the first age group, the following desires are most pronounced, which include the concept of love. Of course, sex comes first. Due to age characteristics, this is quite justified, plus an emotional component. The next desire is to gain prestige. For young people, approval and attitude towards them in society is extremely important. That is why the requirements for the chosen one are quite stringent. A young man certainly wants to be with the most beautiful girl / in the yard, from the group, on the course / This is due to both youthful maximalism and the fact that it is very important for guys at this age what is colloquially called “show off”. In other words, tell the whole world that he has the most, most beautiful girl. Because if no one knows about this, then the young man is also deprived of that share of the prestige that relationships give him. Young people most often do not realize these feelings and desires, awareness and understanding come much later.
At forty, the picture changes. Sex, of course, is important, but not so much. The concept of comfort comes to the first place, and, moreover, it is not only about the maintenance of the home. Here, comfort is not only physical, but also the comfort of the soul. In other words, accepting not only the body, but what we call habits, understanding the way of thinking. At 40, especially men who fall in love, there is another component of their love. This is an understanding that a man feels very strong internal changes. It can be expressed in different ways, but internally, everyone has a feeling of such rejuvenation. Sometimes men in this state begin to write poetry, go on dates to another city. In other words, they do not behave quite adequately to their age. Moreover, the prestige of the chosen one is already completely forgotten, as well as the desire to demonstrate their relationship to the world. Physical perfection is no longer so important for a man as spiritual closeness, understanding and unconditional acceptance of him by a woman. At this moment, the man is inclined to convince himself that he is happy.
It is possible to interpret the individual moments of the development of relations between a man and a woman in different ways, but nevertheless, one has to admit that many aspects and nuances are not given due attention.
Live with joy!
Anton Chernykh.
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