2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Light, as if the day was really good, of course, not like me, but still. Can a little boy, long and wide, bitten by a dog in early childhood, be happy? Is it possible, in principle, to be happy at the forefront of the experience of trauma, encapsulated, invaded by endless grievances against the world and significant people, dismembered into small pieces by consciousness? The dog patted the body, but the soul was torn to shreds.
I don't know, but it seems to me that yes, although, I'm not sure, maybe.
The flight was interrupted and no one paid compensation. This is when the soul, having just appeared in this world, is subjected to violence, and is forced to defend itself from complete destruction by pain, fear and horror, by creating a "protective" body. This body was created, it protects the wounded soul, but bad luck, this very body is deprived of this very soul, which it protects. The boy grew up and became a beautiful uncle, but the soul is still waiting to be protected, healed and talked to her about what happened. A bit like a fairy tale, simply because it is. The protective body protects perfectly, it is devoid of shortcomings that interfere with the defense, the cold gaze of blue eyes like a sea wave, a silent cry for help, emotions, feelings, everything is buried under thick skin, maximum endurance, minimum patience, no indulgences for the attackers, control over the situation and constant voltage.
But the healing process is underway. The time has come and the child's soul is ready for dialogue, it is looking for a place and time, people and conditions, strength and a drop of understanding. This is a healing space as a transitional zone, in which it is possible to connect a wounded soul with a protective body, making them a single whole, a healed organism, endowed with healthy animation. This is a special place, this is a temple of the soul, this is a safe space inside a psychologist's office, although this space can be found in other places, the main thing is to understand what you are looking for. Here it is possible to collect the body of the soul in fragments and integrate it into the protective body so that these parts take root, assimilate and become part of the living process of being. This transitional space is just an imitation of the space that exists between the child and the parents, filled with dreams and fantasies of the soul, which gradually become the reality of the body. But … not everyone has this process in a natural and safe way.
Protective bodies seem solid and strong, but this is only an illusion, visible to a person who understands trauma. The split ego glistens with bright facets in the sun, attracting all the glitter-hungry birds of a ground flight and those living closer to the earth. What they want to do with it, they themselves do not know, the shine of extinguished eyes and the excitement of kindling a long-extinguished fire are important here. Many of us want to be gods and raise from the dead, but not many of us manage to be resurrected ourselves.
And there are many such boys and girls, there are a lot of them. They wander back and forth in search of understanding, comfort and warmth, they want attention and love, they are in an eternal silent cry to the world, which does not hear them, but sees only a protective body from which it defends itself. And it turns out that we defend ourselves from each other in the hope that someone will surrender and fulfill the last will of the dying soul - breathe life into it.
What are we all strong, omnipotent we are, what are we.
Everything.
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