2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
When I conduct family counseling or individual counseling on the relationship between a man and a woman, I am amazed at the answers to the following question:
Why did you go to the registry office and legalize your relationship?
- I wanted to be a princess, a white dress, a banquet, gifts, beautiful photos, etc.
- I was almost thirty years old, everyone is married, married, and I am alone (alone)
- For status
- Evil ex-boyfriend (ex-girlfriend)
- Because it is necessary, the parents were against our free relationship
- Mom tortured me with questions when to expect grandchildren
I listen to such answers and see that the majority have no understanding of family values, there is no understanding on what foundation the relationship between a man and a woman is being created and strengthened.
As a result of my reflections, I came to the conclusion that it is very beneficial to keep people in the dark.
- The more divorces, the more complete the state treasury.
- If a person is divorced, then there is a high probability that he will repeat this circle (wedding-divorce) again and again
- And if all people begin to value family relationships and consciously come to the registry office only once in a lifetime, this is not beneficial to anyone.
In support of my reflections comes the fact that not a single educational institution has such a subject as "the basics of family relations" or something similar, where basic concepts of family values, crises are given and how they can be overcome without rushing into such extreme as a divorce.
For clarity, let's list who feeds on the wedding:
- State, receiving state duty for the issuance of a marriage registration certificate
- Restaurant and cafe owners
- Photographers and video operators
- Jewelry store owners
- Shop owners of wedding dresses and men's suits
- Hairdressing salon owners
- Makeup artists
- Flower shop owners
- Grocery store owners
- Tour Operators
- Custom cake makers
- Owners of various shops where guests buy gifts for the newlyweds
Who feeds on divorce? Especially in families with children and joint property.
In my opinion, all those who are close to the state, and for whose services you need to pay not only to a specialist, but also to the treasury, which is why divorce is beneficial:
- The state receives a double state duty for the issuance of a divorce certificate
- Courts
- Lawyers
- Attorneys
- Notaries
- Independent experts in various fields
- Appraisers
- Bailiffs
Conclusion:
Love and family are not just words, it is a whole profession, which is important to learn and improve your skills throughout your life
Self-development has not been canceled! If state educational programs do not include such disciplines as creating and maintaining harmonious relationships, such information is in books, articles, trainings, master classes. All in your hands!
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