2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Undoubtedly, the topic of building relationships is important for both men and women, but according to my observations, the fair sex is still more interested in these issues. And the most common among them is, "Why can't you create this relationship?" To answer it, you need to imagine how a woman really relates to men, in general, and what criteria she will use when choosing a partner.
The following situation can often be observed: a woman convinces herself (possibly the consequences of unsuccessful relationships) that there are no worthy men. She broadcasts her negative attitude towards the entire male gender to those around her. The slogan of such ladies is often the well-known phrase that "all men are goats." The attitude of these women towards men is filled with aggression and resentment. Moreover, often, there is no specificity in this, only general statements and generalizations. In this state of affairs, one cannot expect that a prince on a white horse will appear, as in a fairy tale.
If a woman does not like men at all, then it is better for her to leave them alone. At least until that time, until her views change, and aggression is minimized. These questions can be worked out with a specialist.
One more point. This is the direct choice of a partner. Some women tend to ignore the fact that finding a relationship entails giving up some of their habits and comfortable behaviors (this is true for men as well). It is a superficial attitude to this aspect that sometimes leads to discord in a couple.
Aggression by a woman towards men also has a detrimental effect on children. A boy, whose mother, experiencing aggression towards men, can hardly count on a truly warm relationship with the closest person-mother. Unconsciously, a woman will transfer her attitude towards men to her son. The result of such a parenting model is not difficult to predict. Girls, in such conditions, will receive a fairly stable attitude about their attitude towards men. Subsequently, as a rule, they also do not work out with the representatives of the stronger sex and their life cannot be called happy.
Some women who have this attitude towards men do not even want to think about the specific reasons for its occurrence. But if you honestly try to figure it out, then perhaps many problems could have been avoided. The main thing is not to deceive yourself.
It also happens that a woman tries to cope with a man (as in a boxing ring), most often it does not end with anything, and a woman begins to feel burdened by a relationship with a man, which naturally does not lead to anything good. And it can also become the cause of the emergence of aggression.
It is important to understand that internal attitudes and honesty in relation to one's own thoughts and feelings, and their reasons, is the basis of a happy person's life. Deceiving yourself is not happy.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
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