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He entered the office with lowered shoulders and a dull gaze. He sat on the chair as if not alive, without uttering a word. He did not show himself in any way. And only in response to my desperate request: "Help me understand you," he whispered barely audibly:
- I hate my daughter, I want her to die. He said it so quietly, as if he was afraid that someone from above would hear and punish him.
I offered to choose a figurine for him, symbolizing his daughter. He instantly took a small doll with limply dangling rope legs and arms. I offered to put it in the sandbox, he didn't even put it, but threw it there.
I offered to kill the doll and bury it. He recoiled from me in horror, covering his face with his hands:
- How can you, this is my daughter!
“No, it's not a daughter, it's a figure,” I replied.
He could not do it for a long time, but at some point it seemed to burst through him. He grabbed a wrench and beat the doll with it for a long time. Then he put the figurine in a coffin and buried it in the sand, he made a mound and put up a cross. He sobbed, he screamed in despair, he tore his hair.
A year later, I met him in the park. A confident handsome, strong man taught a beautiful baby to ride a bike. She looked at him adoringly, he at her with tenderness.
So what happened in the sandbox? Everything is simple: for him his daughter was a symbol of his childish, infantile part, which he hated so much in himself, it was her that he buried. And after that he adopted his child. And if he had not performed that symbolic ritual, would not have let his emotions come out, there is a high probability that he would have destroyed himself and his family.
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