2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
For some reason, speaking of femininity, first of all, we put gender first. That is, we mean that the physical component of a woman is more important than her emotional and psychological side. And here, in fact, there is a question. If you think that a woman is, first of all, a body, then our actions will be directed to the body. Refine, dress, decorate, care for him, etc. And, it would seem, there is nothing wrong with the fact that a woman looks beautiful. But there is a very thin line between our ability to be attractive and our ability to be perfect. If in the word "femininity" the physical aspect is more important to you, it comes first, than the emotional or spiritual, then we turn into an absolute spender. You have items in your wardrobe that you haven't worn for a year. But you keep them because things are emotional memories. And if there are extra things in the wardrobe that you accumulate, then the thought follows that maybe this is not only in the wardrobe? Maybe we have emotions that we accumulate and it is high time to get rid of them? Maybe we have our habits or relationships that have become obsolete. But somehow we do not say goodbye to them. And the result is littering.
And this is about our perception of the very theme of femininity.
What does it mean to lose your femininity?
When we talk about femininity, the question of gender is often raised.
Have you ever wondered that a woman can really be happy, successful and inspired if she has a good relationship with her family? If she is, as it were, interconnected with him, connected to her kind.
Firstly, a woman is, first of all, energy. Some people think that our relationship with the clan looks like this: “I have to study my clan. I have to connect to a system of sorts. And draw from this kind of strength. If she is truly a giver, she is happy in the ministry. The energy of a woman in her interaction with the clan appears when she finds the correct system of giving to her clan. And that includes us. If a man accepts from his kind, then a woman gives to her kind. And when we say that men and women have changed their roles in the modern world, then this is exactly what we mean.
Secondlyhow a woman became lost her femininity. You have accumulated knowledge. That is, you went to the training, did nothing with the knowledge gained. You went to class, read a book, etc. The main root of female pride begins when we accumulate knowledge and do not give it away.
Thirdly, when we lose our femininity, this is our rush. When we just run. We forget to do the morning, evening prayer. We think that answering on Facebook and seeing how many likes our post has collected is more important than praying for the health of family and friends or meditation. We think that some news or some gossip with a girlfriend is more important than a blissful state in the kitchen when you are preparing food for your family.
Fourth, when we lose our femininity is due to the fact that we have a claim to our parents.
Physiologists have proven that the human body is completely renewed in 7 years, completely. A girl whom her mother disliked, her father did not work out, someone betrayed or you betrayed, heard some words in childhood or sometime before - she is not in sight. But there is someone in your head who is secretly overwriting these traumatic experiences in the brain. And like crackers, he carries them with him. Why is it important? Because negative memories carry a tremendous amount of energy. And we think: “Oh, what if I become completely unhappy, I’ll need some emotions to feed my personality. Oh, I have croutons of negative memories from childhood, maybe let them be kept for a rainy day."
When a woman becomes a giver and is happy she stops carrying croutons with her. It generates energy flow. She, in general, realizes that she is connected to an outlet of one hundred million thousand volts.
Femininity is a flow. You were just born, that's it, this stream has opened for you. And all you can do is just not interfere with this flow. The most important thing that you should do is simply to systematically clean up the trash from there.
Elena Tararina
#CreateHeart
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