2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
My friend, a cheerful, puffy blonde forty years of age, has never been married. But with enviable regularity she started relationships with married men, as she said - preferably a status, forty-plus, married (equally "fit"), in the word "Gentleman". These three parameters made her choice. But at some point, when her friends had already raised their children, made a career and began to live for themselves, she suddenly wondered - what is the actual meaning of all my adventures? Men still spend the holidays with their legitimate wives, although girlfriends are getting old, they are very proud that their children and husbands like their wrinkles that appear, that the nests of friends are already retinues, filled and practically this is the meaning of their life. And what is the meaning of her life? And then some kind of incomprehensible emptiness appeared, an insult, against whom, most likely for life in general - no luck, it did not work out, that one did not get caught. But she had a cheerful disposition, so her existential crisis did not last long (a couple of hours). Having scrolled through the news feed in the FB, I found a couple of psychologists (at my place of residence) and decided, since everything is so colorful on their pages - who sculpts, who draws, who lays out metaphorical cards - and they solve all "difficult life situations, it is necessary to apply, because she now has the names of that very difficult situation.
Phoned.
Has come.
She was met by a pleasant-looking girl (psychologist), all so elegant, dazzling in clever words, and in general the courtesy itself.
- Now we will analyze your situation and decide what we will do, so to speak, in which direction to work - either to build a family nest right in the office and look for a husband, or to connect with the unconscious in order to extort from him - what do I need.
For a long time my friend was not enough. Only koloboks were made of plasticine, and dice (she poked holes with a pen out of boredom - 1, 2, 3, etc.)
- And what is it for you? How do you feel?
- this is a bun, and this is a cube, can't you see yourself?
In general, the work did not go on, the "psychologinya" could not find out anything significant.
- Okay, I'll swing like this bun, maybe I'll find a fiancé somewhere. - said my friend goodbye.
I went further to look for help. I found another such a decent-looking aunt, with a lot of work experience and rich life experience. Well, let's lay out the cards with her.
- I actually came to a psychologist, but if you are a fortune-teller, it's even cooler. Tell me right away if I have a chance for a family hearth or not?
Auntie raised her glasses, knitted her eyebrows and gazed into my friend's eyes. Then she realized that she blurted out something superfluous. On the other hand, since I'm paying money, why not blurt out.
In general, work did not go on here either. Rather, it became boring. All sorts of pictures are different, mysticism is just the same, but: “I wanted it scientifically, as in magazines:
5 secrets of happiness …..
10 secrets of how to get married ………
7 secrets of something else.
And everyone is so smart and smart. Here you follow these secrets, just fad for fad, write out “quotes from great people for every day” and expect improvements. It is a pity that, in fact, there is little sense. It turns out that you only get clever about the topic and not the topic from this."
So my friend gave up on all this and decided to go to a sports store to buy a racket. I just wanted to go to the court urgently and all the crap out of my head with a racket, so much so that …
Py.sy. the story ended cheerfully and very hopefully. Returning home after another training session (and she had been leaving for almost 3 months), the car stalled. And some uncouth bumpkin, puffing like a dragon, muttering to himself everything that he thinks about her in particular and about women in general - provided all possible help. So an acquaintance began, although he was not married and not quite a gentleman (according to her parameters). But very cute.
Conclusion: a smart, cheerful person, easy-going, sometimes just needs common sense, and he will solve all the issues himself.
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