2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The topic of sexuality for women is always very exciting and relevant. They contrive with all their might, applying all sorts of manipulations in order to achieve the cherished goal.
And I have only one question: why do you need your sexuality?
Because for me, sexuality comes in different types and levels.
You can be outwardly attractive, seductive, but empty inside - and here one scenario of relationships with men unfolds;
And you can be sexual out of a sense of inner dignity and honor - this is a completely different level and quality of life, consciousness and relationships with the outside world.
From the above, I would like to highlight the points that, in my opinion, are very important in order to feel sexy, but at a level above instincts:
Feelings
It is very important to be able to experience feelings, to be alive - this is a psychological component that is blocked for a number of reasons in the process of living life circumstances. It is worth working with a therapist and is often not a quick or pleasant process.
Connection with the body, love for it
For me, this point is very interconnected with the first one - at a certain time I lost contact with my feelings and my body - a very large number of wrong choices flowed out from here, which later turned, of course, into experience.
Why is it important to love your body?
Our very smart head will always find a bunch of excuses or rationalize why we should act in a certain way. That is why he and the mind to analyze. But! Our body is much wiser and more experienced in this regard. It is important to learn to track your intuitive responses in the body and learn to trust them. I think you have more than once come across a situation when, not knowing the right answer, but trusting your intuition, you chose the right answer or went in the right direction.
Pleasures in life
The more deeds, things, people you love in your life, the higher the level of your health, energy and sexuality. After all, sexuality is about pleasure, about allowing yourself to feel it. And that goes for everything - walking in the park, writing an article, and other activities. It is important to be in the moment here and now and to feel what you are doing. Slow down.
In the next article I will tell you about very important and deep points why you do not feel your sexuality.
What resonates with you in this article? Which item is there a problem?
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