2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The topic is not easy, and I can already imagine what accusations "of dislike" will fall on me for our native Russian men. Only it is not so!
Nobody says that it is impossible to get acquainted with a Russian man, only if we are talking about a woman of not a young age, it will be, objectively, easier for her to find a companion not in our country, but in another country.
Let's talk about the reasons below.
I recently wrote an article
Cult
This publication, for some reason, caused a great response.
Valuable for me, in the context of what I wanted to say, were the following comments
Which confirms my thoughts that Western men assess themselves more adequately than ours.
Western men
- less spoiled by female attention,
- do not believe that they are valuable just because they belong to the stronger sex,
- much less often seek to find a companion twice as young as themselves,
- do not allow themselves outright rudeness, at least, because there you can, for vulgarity, insults and harassment, really, "get it"!
In addition, they practically do not discriminate against women by age, as evidenced by the following comment, under the same article:
My cousin, who is eleven years older than me, often visits Israel and America and enjoys a certain degree of success there. Another thing is that she herself does not particularly strive to develop relations.
Not so long ago I wrote about another wonderful woman who is 62 years old and living in another country she does not feel at all on the sidelines of life, but on the contrary, as evidenced by my article
How to work with the query: "Is my relationship money?" using 2 MAC cards
In addition, Western society is much more tolerant
- by age,
- disabled people,
- whatever, otherness.
When I was visiting Margarita Vaelma, I watched with great pleasure how an orchestra of people who were well over 50 and even over 60 performed in the city park of Kotka. Margarita was the youngest there.
"Grandfathers" and "grandmothers" played button accordions, accordions, and an elegant vocalist sang
Most of the peers gathered to listen to their fellow countrymen, it was very pleasant to look at the elderly couples. There were many wheelchair users and very old people among the spectators.
By the way, on the streets of even such a large, cultural and democratic city as St. Petersburg, you will rarely see such people.
Margarita will not let the lie that some gray-haired gentleman sat down with me and began to tell something politely, until I explained to him in my broken English that I was Russian and had not straightened my hair, showing off a wedding ring.
The conclusion suggests itself that
Get acquainted with a man from another country, if you already, as they say, "not sixteen" is possible.
How will the relationship work out?
This is a different question and a different topic!
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