2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In ancient beliefs and teachings, it is said that the further earthly path of each person is laid in the womb of the mother and she (the mother) has tremendous power to shape the fate of her child. Do you want your baby to go through life as an optimist and not prone to depression, to be handsome, smart, healthy, grow up with a love of life and never think about suicide? But these life programs can be laid from the moment of conception, if you take a responsible approach to the period of pregnancy.
The prenatal period of a child's life at all times was considered very important, many peoples paid special attention to it throughout the history of their development. And this is not surprising, because during this period not only physiological systems and anatomical organs are formed and begin to function, but the psychological life of an unborn baby also begins. This is the time when the child's attitude to the world is formed (basic trust or non-trust), the life potential of the personality, its capabilities are laid.
They say that a mother is the first earthly universe for a child, through her the baby receives all information about himself (whether he is desired or not) and about the world around him (dangerous / safe), learns a whole range of emotions and feelings, she has a positive or destructive influence with her thoughts on the development of his psyche. Research in the field of perinatal psychology has proven that an important factor in the subsequent development of a person is the experience of life in the mother's womb, which is unconsciously stored in memory and affects the formation of certain behavioral patterns in adult life. It has been proven that an unwanted child inherits a tendency to suicide, which can manifest itself already in childhood, as well as a feeling of loneliness and uselessness, at the same time, the desired children have a high psychological potential, are open and self-confident. If the mother was under stress for most of the pregnancy, the child was worried with her, then in adulthood he has more chances to suffer from depressive disorders than people whose intrauterine life was calm.
Maxim, despite good chances, cannot expand his business because of his inner fear of losing everything he has, he is afraid that his business partners will betray him. A man experiences an inner fear of being abandoned all his life, he trusts few people, he has no inner confidence in the future. According to the theory of perinatal memory, this inner fear is rooted in the period of uterine development, when the unborn child was abandoned by the father. The baby was experiencing the same experiences as his mother; he still had a fear of reality in his mind.
Unfortunately, it is impossible to completely remove stress, anxiety and other factors from our life that negatively affect the course of pregnancy, but it is possible to minimize their impact on the baby.
How can a mother-to-be help her child write a happy destiny scenario?
The first thing a woman needs to do, even at the planning stage of pregnancy, is to work through her childhood traumas and fears associated with pregnancy and childbirth. Such preparation will help a woman to be here and now, and from the standpoint of an adult to evaluate everything that happens, and this is worth a lot.
Secondly, it is advisable for the expectant mother to establish contact with her baby, to give him love and tenderness already during this period. It is important for the mother to talk to the child, read fairy tales to him, sing lullabies through which she would convey love and desire to meet the baby. Such communication contributes to the formation of attachment between mother and child, the baby's need for love is satisfied, and a feeling of emotional security arises.
Contact with the child can be established through a drawing, when the mother draws her expectations, dreams. Meditation, creative visualization, and an enthusiastic state of prayer will also help in prenatal communication.
You should not renounce the experience and knowledge of your ancestors, now the ancient, tested by hundreds of generations, techniques that allow you to establish contact with an unborn baby, "program" certain capabilities, appearance, and state of health are becoming very popular. Much attention is paid to sound effects, for example, it is believed that through singing certain songs, a mother can attract a happy fate, good health to her child. So from India came the practice of singing songs by a pregnant woman about the future happy fate of the baby. While singing, the child feels the wonderful high-frequency vibrations of the mother's voice, and at the same time, the mother receives blood saturation with oxygen, which the baby needs so much. By visualizing, you can "order" appearance and longevity, and special prayers and meditations will help you get in touch with the Guardian Angel and ask him for patronage.
It is important for mom to remember that the child is able to perceive all her feelings, and she acts as an intermediary between the baby and the outside world, therefore, all her experiences (especially negative ones) should be explained to the child, focusing on the fact that, in order not to happen in the world, the child beloved and desired. For example: “Kid, Mom is a little angry with Dad because he was late. But despite this, we are doing well, we love you and are looking forward to it. During such contact, it is advisable to put your hand on your stomach and stroke it. Also in meditation, a mother can send streams of love to the child and envelop him in a golden ball of warmth and peace.
Unfortunately, our life is not complete without worries, therefore, one should learn before pregnancy techniques of self-regulation, such skills will help a pregnant woman quickly cope with emotions, and this will contribute to the fact that the baby is born emotionally stable.
And most importantly, a pregnant woman should be happy, experience positive emotions that her baby feeds on. We should not forget about the classic pleasures for pregnant women: looking at the beautiful, being in nature more often, breathing the sea / forest air, listening to classical music, doing handicrafts. And to add to this list "sweets" that are suitable for a future mom.
It is important to understand and realize that the prenatal period of development is important for the further life of the child, and if the child even before birth feels love, tenderness, care, he will certainly transfer this into his adult life. Isn't that the kind of baggage you want to give your child to life ?!
The fate of your child depends on you, give him a happy life!
Happiness to you!
With love, Natalia Lisyanskaya - lysianskaja.com
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